I recently got married (a month ago), i am from a country where there is no
concept of dating. My parents looked a girl for me, i saw her, liked her and
got married. Now the problems started.

During our first night the girl(my wife) refused to do sex.
she didn't allow me to touch her or have sex at all; this continued for first
three days.Later, after so much of pressure from me she agreed to do.

But while i'm doing sex, she doesn't have any feelings or whatever,
she will be like as if nothing is happening to her.

and her vagina never gets wet (no secretions at all), i've to use lubricants
otherwise it will be painful for her and myself too.

what is wrong with her. every time i start with so much of foreplay
but she never gets aroused.

She never asks me for sex. every time i've to
start asking for it and it ends in a very disappointing way.

she told me that she had an operation to her ovary bag (i don't know the medical term
for it). There was cist to that bag and they removed it surgically.
I don't if this is the reason for her not having interest towards sex.