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Me and my wife waited until marriage before having sex. Needless to say we got married and have done the deed but she continues to have pain during sex and its been three months since we lost our virginity to each other. Theirs only one position where it doesn't hurt her (from the side) and she says she feels a burning sensation from time to time. I am starting to become concerned. Any advice?

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Hi, i recommend you see a doctor it might be a bacterial infection nothing that i little cream cant fix. Good luck.
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Hahaha, its been a while since then so im sure everything is fine now. But rest assured, that experience was perfectly normal!! When i list my virginity i experienced pain. I also started seeing someone about a year ago who is rather large...if you catch my drift :-D and i experienced it for some time with him. It takes awhile for the vagina to stretch and adjust which can be slightly plainfull, aslo on my case, my boyfriend goes pretty deep sometimes which hurts. Its all natural though and will go with time.
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Pain during sex is NOT normal. The first time, yes, there will be pain. After that, no. Any pain during sex can be a few things. It can mean a infection or not enough lubrication. You could go to the store and buy some vaginal lubricant such as KY Jelly and try that. Some women do not produce enough of their own lubrication during sex creating a painful burning feeling, tearing the sides of the vagina from friction. If there is an infection, a common one is Bacterial Vaginosis, there will be pain during sex. This is NOT an STD. It is simply an overgrowth of bad cells in the vagina. The Vagina is naturally acidic to keep bacteria out. When it becomes too basic bacteria will grow, such as Bacterial Vaginosis. This is easy to get rid of with some pills from the doctor. You need to get a pap smear to confirm. It is easy for women to get B.V. because if the man hasn't showered in a day or two he can introduce bacteria to the vagina from his penis. Or if he doesn't wash his hands before foreplay, bacteria gets in that way too. When a woman gets aroused, her vagina naturally stretches to allow a penis to enter. If she's not fully aroused, her vagina won't be fully stretched thus causing pain. The vagina can stretch to pass a child. The comment about hurting because a man is too large is practically false. If your vagina stretches like it should, and produces enough lubrication, there should be no problem.
I am a nursing student, my mom and aunt are nurses. This is all valid information.
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