I just got married three months ago. I was a virgin up untill marriage. I have never had an orgasm and sex has always been painful. I have a difficult time "getting wet." I also have a discharge that's similar to a yeast infection. However, I don't have a yeast infections. I've had a pap which came back normal when I was having discharge. Many times it hurts when we first start and then it goes away during sex. Other times it begins to burn first thing and continues to burn for the entire time we have sex. It feels like my skin is being rubbed off inside. I'm thinking that my hymen is causing the pain when we first start. It's open but still there in great portortions. My hymen is also very sensitive to pressure; it stings. As for the burning, I think that I'm just not getting aroused, but I use tons of lubercant. It still hurts. Why?! The doctors told me that it shouldn't hurt even if I'm not interested or wet. They said as long as I use lots of lubercant, it should not hurt no matter the interest or wetness. Is this true? I also can't figure out why I'm having a discharge. There's no smell, and it happens the day after the burning sensation of painful sex. What is it? It's driving me crazy! Please some one help me.
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I also feel pain sometimes at the beginning but if I hold it for about half a minute, everything goes smooth. And like you said, that is because I am not aroused. But then, my men starts with his moves and he gets me going. Then all the juice start coming and I don’t need any lubricants anymore.
Do you have foreplay? I think your doctor has no idea what he’s talking about. It could hurt if you’re not aroused.
However, all together, the burning and the discharge do sound like an std.
Do you have foreplay? I think your doctor has no idea what he’s talking about. It could hurt if you’re not aroused.
However, all together, the burning and the discharge do sound like an std.
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My boyfriend enjoys it when i give him oral alot and i really like it when he does it but he hasn't done it in a long time how do I communicate that i want him to do oral on me?
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Well, I would sure like to tell you that there is an easier way that this but… girl, you just need to tell him. This would be the easiest and most productive way. Than again, if you are too shy to do that, you can send him the signal in some other way. Maybe, you can play a porn with the oral thing? Or, why not try sucking some stuff like penis. This could give him a clue.
But I just think you could do the easiest thing in the world and show him the way by pushing his head downwards when you are kissing in bed or somewhere, doesn’t matter. He must understand the signals, but if he still is hesitating, you need to support him by showing him you want it even more than he wants it himself. And also, he is not the only one that should be orally pleased, right?
I wish you guys the most enjoyable sex.
But I just think you could do the easiest thing in the world and show him the way by pushing his head downwards when you are kissing in bed or somewhere, doesn’t matter. He must understand the signals, but if he still is hesitating, you need to support him by showing him you want it even more than he wants it himself. And also, he is not the only one that should be orally pleased, right?
I wish you guys the most enjoyable sex.
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Hi all! Newbie here!
Anyway, i don't have any experience yet in terms of sex so i don't think i could give an advice..but it was good to hear some of your experiences and advice here...Thanks anyway!:-D
Anyway, i don't have any experience yet in terms of sex so i don't think i could give an advice..but it was good to hear some of your experiences and advice here...Thanks anyway!:-D
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