Pain with my partner

Hi everyone. My Girlfriend and I (male) sometimes have empty houses. We go over to my house usually and have some fun. Now here's the problem, if i move to start rubbing her clit, she really really enjoys it, but after a short while (30 seconds or so) she says that it hurts enough that I should stop. I'm trying to find out why. Medically she is fine and she is a very fit and active girl. I dont put much pressure on her clitoris and have next to no nails rubbing on it. She also says that its not as good of a feeling if i jsut rub the general area.

A few days ago, i played with her a litt,e again she complained of it hurting. Then about 3 hours later i tried again, and somehow, it didnt get sore (for the 3 hours we were just hugging and kissing etc...), and I kept going till she could take no more and came. She loved it, but why did it work that time and none of the others?

Any suggestions will be very helpful

hi, me and my boyfriend have the exact same problem, he sometimes get's annoyed when i tell him to stop cause it hurts, and when it doesn't hurt as much it takes forever... I dont think he thinks he's good enough :/ we haven't tried leaving it a couple of hours then trying again so thanks thats really useful :)

i personally start to enjoy it more once he's got me wet... so maybe try inserting your finger(s) into her V and, i can't really explain it, but moving it/them about? ;-)

There's also other thing you can do for her to get her 'going' for example; some girls like dirty talk, some like their nipples being played with, some even like their necks being softly bit/kissed. experiment with her as i know the same thing (depending on how often you do it) can get boring and too much can start to bring pain to a girl... just like if a boy masturbates too much.

Hope i've helped... GOOD LUCK!:-D