I offered laying on my side, but laying on stomach or on all 4's like a dog feels so degrading... spouse got so upset he just walked off and got dressed. I feel like I let him down, but it is so difficult to get over this feeling of being an animal being mounted/degrading. Any advice?
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We talked it through... will work on it together :) :) Still appreciate any advice on ways to get over this mentally.
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well some men like that position,mine does.I think you should relax and get into his head saying this is good for him. You want him to be open and feel that he can tell you what he likes. this happened to me too,let the front of your body relax down with your shoulders on the bed or couch put a pillow under tour stomache you will learn this is a good psition if you do it this way good luck girl
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Thats a fav position for me, just relax and let your body and mind at ease and you will be fine, your orgasm is even better, and its exercise for your butt, like doing squats, lbvs, don't be so hard on yourself and take it as degrading. of course u can spoon but until your comfortable and he wants to obviously see a** how about you ride him backwards while using his feet as support! hope this helps
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It is sex, if you don't feel like it is messy and dirty, you are not doing it right!
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