newby at anal and want to know how it can be less painful

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Try fingering ur as****e first , & gradually work to make it bigger (:
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Ok so my husband has wanted this forever and everytime we tried it hurt so bad that I couldn't let him do it. I usually laid on my stomach thinking it would help me relax. Well it didn't work. So here is what did work. I got all dressed up and he walked in the room, loved it. I laid on the edge of the bed on my back and he stood next to the bed. We used his saliva as lubrication. He raised my legs so my butt was in the air and I help them up from behind my knees. He always fingers my butt first so it helps open it up a little and makes it feel good. Then he slowly, very slowly started to slide it in. You have to go slow. After a few minutes I was the one who wanted it. It did hurt every now and then but it felt so good that I didnt' care cause I wanted it. After wards I did bleed but not that much. Its like losing your virginity in your butt. But that was last night and today I am fine. He did not cum in my butt. I feel fine, already took a bowel this morning and no pain. Good luck and I hope this helps you out a little bit.

Lube helps it go in smoother. And starting slow works. I tried it years ago. It hurt first time. But after 3rd time going slow and being well lubed helped. The anal orgasm is amazing. But remember, no fast movement untill it starts to feel good. Hey, do you think cooking oil will work as anal lube.