I just found out i'm pregnant and I can't tell my parents they think i'm the "perfect" child and also i think my boyfriend would flip so I would like to know what states you can get an abortion in without parental concent? please help!
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Hi honey! I am a mother of 2 boys 17 and 14 and what I have told both of them - as a mother - I will tell you! "IF you get a girl pregnant do NOT do anything without talkingto us first! We will be ticked BUT we will work it out together" So even though NO parent wants to hear their child is pregnant, millions of parents hear those words every year - all around the world!
Your boyfriend shouldn't have not worn protection then should he?! That's the chances you take! 1st are you TOTALLY sure you are pregnant? If that is true I want you to talk to your parents first OK? IF they decide with you that an abortion is best right now then fine, they will help you! BUT you have to give them the chance to sort it out! IF I found out that my sons girlfriend had an abortion and didn't tell us they were pregnat I truly would be devestated, because they took the chance for myself and my husband to help them and see if it would be doable!
So don't rule out your parent coming to your aid honey! They just might surprise you AND - as I have told other young girls on here that are pregnant - you HAVE to allow them to be MAD!!!! You have to allow them to be upset, angry, dissapointed, sad etc. BUT you also have to allow them to see what they can do! Tell you boyfriend first and see what he says too! IF he dashes that's on him! BUT he might surprise you too! It takes TWO to Tango AND make a baby honey!
BIG HUGS and please let me know how things go OK?
Your boyfriend shouldn't have not worn protection then should he?! That's the chances you take! 1st are you TOTALLY sure you are pregnant? If that is true I want you to talk to your parents first OK? IF they decide with you that an abortion is best right now then fine, they will help you! BUT you have to give them the chance to sort it out! IF I found out that my sons girlfriend had an abortion and didn't tell us they were pregnat I truly would be devestated, because they took the chance for myself and my husband to help them and see if it would be doable!
So don't rule out your parent coming to your aid honey! They just might surprise you AND - as I have told other young girls on here that are pregnant - you HAVE to allow them to be MAD!!!! You have to allow them to be upset, angry, dissapointed, sad etc. BUT you also have to allow them to see what they can do! Tell you boyfriend first and see what he says too! IF he dashes that's on him! BUT he might surprise you too! It takes TWO to Tango AND make a baby honey!
BIG HUGS and please let me know how things go OK?
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