I don’t know what to do. I am 15 and two months pregnant. I have not told anyone, not even to the father of my baby. My parents will kill me when they find out. I am not ready to have this baby. What should I do?
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You need to talk to your mother as soon as possible. Don’t say that your parents would kill you. They love you and they have to be there for you. You are still so young and you have your whole life ahead of you. It is normal that you are not ready for the baby yet. You are still just a kid. I can not tell you what to do, whether to keep the baby or not. That is the decision that you need to make. It will probably be the hardest decision you will ever have to make. But, now is time to face your situation and you need to mature over night. Having a baby is the most beautiful thing in the world. On the other hand, being teen parent has its difficulty. You will miss out a lot of things that are normal for girls your age. Having a baby is a great responsibility and you need to be absolutely sure about your decision.
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I think you should tell the father of your baby first the your mom BUT WHAT EVER YOU DO DON'T GET AN ABORSHION.
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I had my first son when I was 15, sure it had its moments but it was the best thing I ever did. It was just natural to want to keep the baby, overall I was the women who choose to have sex so these were apart of the consequences. I had my second son when I was 17, two very beautiful boys. I know lots of teenagers who have children, and no there parents did not kill them. Ultimately, it has to do with what your willing to sacrifies. Being a parent is the most selfless position you could ever be in! It was well worth the sacrifice, I love my children. If you feel asthough you cannot keep the baby look at all the other options- abortion and adoption. Look on the web site, seek professional advice, its okay. Do whats best for you, and do something you can live with. Either way you will be making some sort of a sacrifice. Do what you what! Just to let you know, its not that scary to be a mother. I have done either I had hoped too and still have goals. I graduated from high school and Im in my first year of college in the Social Work Program. I am with the childrens father still, we live on are own in a nice and safe home. And love each other very much. Nothing is more important then your family. They are number 1.
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Tell someone, a doctor, your friend, more importantly tell your mum and dad. They need to know, because they will start to notice soon and then they will be even more angry that you didn't tell them. Good luck!! X
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