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Hello Experts.
I'm 15 and I have reccently lost my virginity to my boyfriend on June 27th 07. He'd only broke my vaginal barrier and stopped since I told him it hurt. (condom used) Later on, there was a little blood the a few minutes later. 3 days later I had a full period on July 1st-July 6th or 7th. He is the same age as me. Then on July 8th 07 we had actcual intercourse. Protection (condom) was used BOTH times.

**But the problem is I was (OVULATING??) one day after my periodjuly8.**
NOW it's the morning on July 11th 07.
--these days I am feeling sickish, such as feeling the wants of throwing up, urinating (peeing) a lot, and like worms are squiggling around in my tummy. Am I pregnant? I'm really worried. :/

***I also have a handful of questions. (just trying to make sure everythings alright.)
1) Would you feel like your stomache is BLOATED only after a few days (3ish days) of sex?
2) If my period is late next month, does it mean I am pregnant? (I have irregular periods >.<)
3) If my period comes does it mean I'm safe from being pregnant?
4) Does syptoms kick in only after a few days of intercourse? how long does it take pregnancy effects/ syptoms to show? (tummy showing, throwing up, breast tendering)


I am really sorry for the multiple number and long questions!
I'm horrible in using fourms. But after reading all your comments and post, I think SteadyHealth has the most supportive, advice giving and kind people.
Thank you.. PLEASE HELP ME OUT! :(

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From what Me and my girl friends have experienced.. we ovulate aobut one WEEK BEFORE our periods start... but yes that can be different from person to person. You do not ovulate AFTER your period but before.... the egg comes out.. waiting for a sperm.. if it finds a sperm they unite.. travel a bit and implant into the wall of the uterus.. IF there is no sprem to unite with the egg just is there waiting for some time and then is flushed out with your menstrual fluids.

I am not sure how the sexual experience was for you.. rough, deep etc. I had ever felt weird afterwards if my hubby gets too rough or goes too deep. THinking you are new at the sex stuff and so is your body.. it may just be a bit irritated and the tissues trying to recover and then will further get used to being penetrated.

If your period is late it does not mean you are pregnant if you already know it is irregular... chanses are it will come, but keep in mind many things can change one'c cycle, like stress and sickness etc.. so do not stress too much.

9 times out of 10 if your period comes then you are not pregnant. I have known of cases where a woman will seemingly have a normal cycle throughout a pregnancy but it is rare.

I would say within 4 to 6 weeks you would have obviuos symptoms of being pregnant.. since sometime early on the symptoms can be mimcing of a regular flu, allregic reaction, STD etc. It takes longer than a day or two to know if you are pregnant.

If in a couple weeks you still feel crappy, I would suggest going to a doctor, it is better to be safe than sorry.

I am glad that you are asking questions, it is better to do that then stew and worry about it.
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ohh. First of all, I thank you for reading my post. The sex experience was.. deep? There wasn't much moving around just the simple in and out and slight bang-touch of flesh. Does that help describing?

And I don't want to go to my doctor, my doctor is a children's doctor and is very nosey. He will tell my parents ! (not good..)

So what could I do now?

Thanks again dasiy33loca for reading my post =)
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You are very welcome!

Well I would suggest waiting it out.. unless you have a friend or trusted confidant who can help get you to a clinic away form home to get looked at. IF you are pregnant, there are things they can do early.

There are also posts on this site about the morning after pill... not sure but it may be too late for you and it will take that trusted friend or confidant to help get that for you. (think of that in the future)

I honestly think that since condoms were used each time then your chances are slim that you are pregnant. I say wait it out, try to relax, then see what happens around the time your period is due again. Probably everything will be fine.

When I was younger and with my husband (boyfirend at the time) we had a few time when we were both scared. It took me time to get to listen to my body to when when i need to be scared and not be scared.

You will be fine!
Please check back here when you either get your period or if anyhting changes.. or I think you can message me thourgh this site, not sure hto.

Good luck!

(my name is Jenn by the way!)
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wow! Hehe XD Now I feel so much better. Lalalaa I'm feeling happy and hopefully my period will come next month. (No stress = body functioning normally = feeling good! Right? :-D)

Thank you Jenn! I'll keep you posted. =)

And it's very sweet that you got married to your boyfriend =D Heh. I wonder if my boyfriend would keep that promise of 'marrying' me in the future! > . <
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Ok thanks. Look forward to hearing from you in the future!
Jenn
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Hey Jenn!

I was just wondering. Like I would like to make sure for myself whether I am pregnant or not. Before I wait for my period and find surprises.

I wanted to ask you when do you think a Pregnancy Test is most affective for me in this case. I don't want to take it too early.

Any ideas? :$

Oh yeah. My name is Kiwi by the way =)
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Hi Kiwi!

Well I would say anytime after say the 18th would be best to try for a test.. normally it will not show positive until you have officially missed your period.. but was researching myself tonight and found advice that ten days or more after the last time you had intercourse is fine to start testing... remember may stay negative until 3-5 days after the missed period.

(A doctor's blood test can find the pregnancy hormones in your system earlie.. but that requires a blood test at a doctors and all of that stuff)

I have relied on tests in the past... had wonderful and accurate experiences with them each time.. but it will take more than one time.. spread out maybe once a week. Then if you get your period then there are no worries anymore. =)

I found good pregnancy tests in our dollar tree store for $1... they tend to be cheaper in dollar stores.. but at some you have to ask the cashier for them.

Good luck!
Jenn
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Oh I see =) Thank you.

During these 10-18+ days of wait, is there any signs I should look out for?

I've heard some people on this forum get 'spotting'. What is that? Should I look out for that anytime soon?

-Kiwi

Thankyou for being the only one supporting me !
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