This is a question for guys...
I have been pretty conservative most of my life but now I'm looking to hook up with more guys....
Here's my problem though: I have a pretty big scar from a surgery that goes across the top of my pubic bone (where women get C sections) and it goes up the right side of my stomach to a little above my belly button. It wouldn't be too bad if it wasn't red, raised and an inch wide.
Here's my question(s): Is it a big deal to guys that I have it? and Should I let him know before or during our hook up?
I have been pretty conservative most of my life but now I'm looking to hook up with more guys....
Here's my problem though: I have a pretty big scar from a surgery that goes across the top of my pubic bone (where women get C sections) and it goes up the right side of my stomach to a little above my belly button. It wouldn't be too bad if it wasn't red, raised and an inch wide.
Here's my question(s): Is it a big deal to guys that I have it? and Should I let him know before or during our hook up?
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Ok, so this is something I know a pretty good deal about. I'm a girl, but I'm a lesbian. Here's the deal, I really don't think a guy would mind. Seriously, if a guy is going down then he is going down 'cause he wants to and some scar isn't gonna stop him.
If you don't like the redness of it, try using cocoa butter lotion--it will helpreduce the redness.
You could try using Mederma, if you want. It's a little pricey and I used it and did not have a good experience with it.
I hope that I have helped at least a little bit.
If you don't like the redness of it, try using cocoa butter lotion--it will helpreduce the redness.
You could try using Mederma, if you want. It's a little pricey and I used it and did not have a good experience with it.
I hope that I have helped at least a little bit.
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Ok well from my perspective (male)
Scar or not, I've made up my mind.
Theres only 2 things you need to know:
1. YOU ARE THE BOSS OF WHAT HE (or she, of course) DOES TO YOU:
Not to say you control everything, But make sure he knows that if you say stop or ouch or something along thoes lines, it means STOP NOW.
2. I would have to say, ALL women are particularly worried about their..."scent and taste" around this area. Know about this in advance, and try to freshen up before hand. (And yes this goes for guys too, would you want your partner smelling like butt and BO? I think not!)
Other than that, make sure you are SAFE! By all costs, make sure you are SAFE! And enjoy yourself and make responcible decisions, because once someone "gets in your pants" theres no taking that back.
Good luck!
Scar or not, I've made up my mind.
Theres only 2 things you need to know:
1. YOU ARE THE BOSS OF WHAT HE (or she, of course) DOES TO YOU:
Not to say you control everything, But make sure he knows that if you say stop or ouch or something along thoes lines, it means STOP NOW.
2. I would have to say, ALL women are particularly worried about their..."scent and taste" around this area. Know about this in advance, and try to freshen up before hand. (And yes this goes for guys too, would you want your partner smelling like butt and BO? I think not!)
Other than that, make sure you are SAFE! By all costs, make sure you are SAFE! And enjoy yourself and make responcible decisions, because once someone "gets in your pants" theres no taking that back.
Good luck!
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