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I have a body image question....I've had a couple of surgeries done and i have really big scars on my chest and stomach. Other than that I'm a very pretty girl wih pretty face and a fit body. How much will big scars matter to guys?

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I asked my boyfriend about your question and he said that it depended on how the scars looked like! It also depends on the guy!
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Well it depends where the scars are if they are big or if they are ugly. My boyfriend could care less if i had scars
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wow, im screwed for life then.

big and ugly sounds about right.
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how old are you? you could always grow out of it. i would not care because i love a girl with a beautiful face.
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well do you think they are bad?
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well, I'm 19 and I've had these things my entire life (I've had 9 major surgeries). I don't think I'm ever going to be comfortable with them but I have a surgery scheduled all the way in October so one day in the distant future I can be normal.

And yes, I do think that they are ugly. I used to wear them as a badge of honor but when I finally got to brave enough to wear a bikini all the staring and pointing and whispering kinda got me down.

Some guys have been ok with them but they weren't interested in dating.
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oh, and thanks for the encouragement cody :-)
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if you have a pretty face a couldent careless either...
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no problem. waht is your name? *****
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if you live near me i would probably date you! :-D
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well if i was your boyfriend i would give a damn about you scars so wht you got scars who gives a smeg you are who you are and that is all that matters
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this helped me a lot, thank you
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If the guy's really into you he won't care about the scarring, although you should tell him first so it doesn't come as a surprise.
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it sounds like you are really cute and any guy to have you is lucky
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