we've tried a couple times and each time it really hurts

misunderstading216389 over a year ago

so im 14 and i really want to have sex with my bf. we've tried a couple times and each time it really hurts his penis doesnt go far in and i end up crying because it hurts. even when he fingers me it really hurts. i just really want to know is there any way i could make it hurt less or something i will take anything please, i want to have sex with him because im ready i love him so much and he tells me we can wait but honestly i dont want to i want it to stop hurting so me and im could finally become one person, its a wierd way of saying sex but i think its more romatic saying one person. anyway it really hurts and he hardly even goes in the problem used to be finding it but we found it that one time and it hurt like hell he only went like a centimeter in and it stung i ended up crying. he felt really bad for hurting me when i told him to stop, hes really sweet and gentle, ihate it that we cant just show how much we love eachother in a new way can anyone help me with the problem of it hurting so much? :'(

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Guest over a year ago

Wen he enters u and it hurts tel him to stop but leave it in till ur comfy with the pain it shudnt hurt no more than 3 times! Good luck use condoms!!

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Piece208715 over a year ago

hi misunderstanding:),

be4 i lost my virginity at 19 i tried having sex a couple times at 12-14 as well.

i couldnt get it in because my vagina was not lubricated/swelled enough.

ask him for more foreplay, i.e kissing touching massaging oral sex, etc.

this should get your vagina swelled/lubricated enough. 10-30 min is good for me. you can use lubrificant as well.

make sure his penis is clean, you dont want a dirty penis in your vagina, it can cause nasty infections:(