Ok, so I broke up with my boyfriend of three years back in november and then i started going out with my current boyfriend in december. I thought it was a good idea because i really like my new boyfriend. Well, he is always turned on and stuff so we fool around, just using hands though, quite often. Anyway, the person who got me and my ex together(we are still friends even though it is awkward cause i still think i like him) just passed away and it feels like my last tie to my ex is gone. well, since i found out the news i haven't been able to get off when we're playing round. Any advice?
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It's sounds like you may not be fully over your ex since you are unable to get off now. As you said this friend was like a last tie to your ex. My advice is that you need to move on and focus on your new boyfriend. He may start to worry about you. Also, another thing is you could be depressed over this. Try to talk to a close friend or family member. It may take some time to get over but it will happen. I'm been depressed before and one of the best ways I found to get over it is to talk it out with someone.
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Hi,
Sounds like you really need to process the death of this friend and how it ties into your ex. Grieving is a natural process and often times the last thing on a person's mind is sexual contact. Talk to a counselor at your school or a pastor from a church or a mental health professional to help you process your feelings and help you make sense of them. Otherwise they can just get rooted deeper and deeper. Time does not heal all wounds. Talk to someone.
Sounds like you really need to process the death of this friend and how it ties into your ex. Grieving is a natural process and often times the last thing on a person's mind is sexual contact. Talk to a counselor at your school or a pastor from a church or a mental health professional to help you process your feelings and help you make sense of them. Otherwise they can just get rooted deeper and deeper. Time does not heal all wounds. Talk to someone.
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