hi I"m a 20 year old woman with a 15 month baby. my boyfriend who i've been with has angery problems. he grew up watching his mom get smacked around, and knows he has a problem. And that his mom is his triger. we get into fights and i get in his face I get so mad a well throw something. and then he grabs me to get control because he feels helpless and has low-selfesteem his mom's a b***h(she kiddnaped my son) because she has no control over me. she plays him and i snap. it started with him smashing things, holes in the wall than. it was grabing my rings, money and anything to get control over me. now he grabs me and throws me around. shakes me. backs me into small spaces. then i lash out because i feel threatened. he's well just loose it and its like he blacks out. I need to know if theres hope or do I say f**k him. and what the hell do i do about my mother in law. she tells him that he's worthless and doesn't deserve me. it makes it worse becasue he freaks more!
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I can relate to this situation because my ex went through the same thing your bf went through as a child. I can honestly say that if you decide to stick around things will get worse before they get better. Have you tried talkin your bf into gettin professional help like therapy? As for your mother in law. . .she should seek help also and she needs to realize that when she belittles your bf she's only adding fuel to the fire and making things harder for you in your relationship. Letting go of all ties to your mother in law will probably help your bf in the long run until he seeks some professional help
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