almost 2 weeks ago, i had sex, we werent planning on it, as it just happens like that sometimes. we were safe. well we went from behind, and it was rough. i experienced pain and some bleeding after.  this is normal for me, as he was really big and i just finished my period. it felt like a tear. my hole(not anal)  is all sore and red and really hurts. it feels like i was cut. i did end up in the emergency room, it was red and inflammed and told to take a couple weeks off sex to heal. im in less pain, but its still there. going pee is the worse, its not a burning pain tho. just like stabbing moreso. 

the part that im terrified about, is these little bumps i noticed. they're sore like ingrown hairs. ive looked at many pictures on line and it does look like pimples, but i know they can be confused with herpes! it just terrifies me because i do get cold sores when im at my breaking point...

ive been battling a cold for three weeks now. it feels like a common cold.

i do tend to get yeast infections and can't remember the last time i had one. i have thick white discharge, which i always had. it's just a bit heavier now. and as bad as this sounds, i probably don't bath enough as i know some days i get really sweaty down there.

tomorrow it will have been a week since i went to the ER. the doctor did do the herpes swab test, wouldnt of the results come by now? how long does it take? ive had unprotected sex, but that was more then five years ago. what could this bumps be?

please help!!! questions welcome