I am 24 yrs old and yesterday my boyfriend took me out,only to find out he booked a room for us. we kissed and we ended up naked and he was on top of me. i am a virgin and i wasnt really ready but he didnt want to stop even when i told him to, he forced me and the pain was terrible. it went on for a while but all i was doing in that time was to fight him to stop.His penis was hurting me badly and i couldnt do it, when he was done i realised there was blood all over the sheets and i got scared. Did i loose my virginity and why was i bleeding? Even today the pain is killing me, cant walk properly and im still bleeding slightly. PLEASE HELP ME, i am very scared.
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Your first time is ment to be a special moment instead your probably be scared for life every time you think of sex.
What your boyfriend has actually done is rape you hun and i would seriously think about leaving him as he seems to have control issues.
If sex is going to be like this every time with him not caring about your needs is that what you really want?
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i have to say...that was exactly what i want to say! hun, u really have to listen to black's advice. for ur own safety and pleasure-dump him! if he doesn't respect u and ur feelings i don't think that he deserves u. yes, the pain is probably normal and sadly yes u did lose ur virginity. just make sure that the next person u do it with respects u! good luck! xoxo
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How long have you been with your boyfriend to because i would also advise you get a sexual health screening to be safe.
Dont worry the bleeding could last a few days but the soreness should wear off soon :-)
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