I mean I can play with my girlfriend all I want and have a full hard-on but as soon as I am about to put a condom on it just dissapears. Not instantly but quite fast. Im not sure what's wrong. I am still a virgin and this is the first girl I've gotten this close to. I am too young to buy pills and too ashamed to speak to my family or doctor about it. Please any help or suggestions is appreciated.
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There is nothing to be ashamed about. Speaking about sexual questions, a cold, sprained ankle or anything about your body is fine. It may make other people uncomfortable, but who cares, there is nothing wrong with asking questions.... about anything. Just keep in mind there are, "consent laws" for minors. Making sure you are emotionally ready is another thing. Pregnancy may be weighing on your mind & that is enough to put ALL things to a halt. You may be good to go up to the point of having sex, but when the time comes your mind may take over, be overburdened by possible negative outcomes & shut it down, even though you may not want it to. Being on the pill AND wrapping it up may seem like above & beyond, but then again, how much do you like a crying baby in the middle of the night. Also since you're 15, what is 20% of nothing or 20% whatever little paycheck you may working for (can be minimum child support)? Neither the condom or the pill is 100% effective in preventing pregnancy even if used correctly....condom can break/ come off & the pill is less effective if the woman is taking antibiotics or taking some kinds of medications. STD's could be another concern, with or without protection.
TAKE IT SLOW & WHO CARES WHAT YOUR FRIENDS MAY SAY OR TELL YOU TO DO, GO AT YOUR OWN PACE & DONT RUSH THINGS. There is plenty of time for sex, especially in college (another good reason to study hard get good grades & to go to college).
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