I am a 35 Year old man living with my 2 daughters and wife. I smoke when I am with friends either once in a week or in 15days. I also take alcohols once or twice in 6 months or a year and that is also one or two pegs. I am only social smoker or drinker. I am not addicted to these two. But, whenever my wife came to know about my smoking or drinking we have a fight. I get depressed as I feel that "shouldn't I have a little freedom to enjoy with my friends". I have always tried to convince my wife that I am neither addicted to It and never I will get addicted to it. What should I do?