i have been with the same guy for almost two years..sex was great..no problems...a couple of months ago...he told me he might want to have sex with other women as well as me...i didn't like that one...it seems that after that announcement he has ongoing problems getting and maintaining an erection. he says there is nothing going on on the side...but it really makes me wonder...he is drinking way more alchol than he used to (but he always drank), he is under a lot of stress with his children and financially..he has high blood pressure (medicated)..i just find it strange that this occurred right after his announcement..ideas?