Hi, yesterday I noticed my pelvic glands to be swollen and to be hurting a day after I had sex with my wife. I also notices a lump right below the head of my penis which also hurts when I touch it. Last night I was also feeling sick like if I was having a fever and I was very cold. I do not have any discharge coming out of my penis but the glands an the lump are hurting, what could that be?