threesome & effect on a relationship

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Hello

I was for10  years in a threesome relationship, which ended unfortunately with one of the women's suicide. But otherwise it was a very good experience. I'lll never know if the suicide of the women has to do with a problem in the theesome relationship, but I dont' think so. We3 could live our sexuality in an intense way and managed also to share our hobbies like running, art, theater and skiing together in perfect harmony and even the education of the children which we had together. I hope that you will find a good way in you 3some relationship.

my husband and i have met a wonderful woman abt a year ago and she not only turned him on but me too... and my husband and i talked abt the idea of a threesome .........there are rules u go by..... and we have gained a relationship witht he woman we are involved with and as we did it we got pretty good at it... it has made my husband and really close.Closer then we have ever been and he caent keep his hands off me ... he cant wait to get home to me and he cant wait till we see our other partner ..... if u are not strong in your relationship then dont move on having a threesome and see a therapist and discuss your pleasures and desires and see if it is a fantasy or if it is something u really want .... we did and we are having the time of our life......this was the best thing we have ever done and we love it......

Sometimes the threesome works out fine for the people involved and doesn't become a problems till later. Something to think about. My good male friend and his wife had a threesome with my current boyfriend. Happend years ago. My boyfriend and I were mutual friends of the guy. His wife has never liked me, and The couple felt attacked and defensive with me not being willing to double date. this has blown up and is now a huge problem. . Now she lost her friendship with my boyfriend, I lost my friendship with my male friend, and now both boys have a strained relationship that has never been the same. My point is don't just make decisions in the moment because it can effect the future people. If you are secure enough in your relationship to have this sexual endevor, possibly do it with strangers, or people you dont intend on having a long meaningful relationship with.

Hi Bobbi can you email me?

Threesomes are like other relationships, in that there's no one description that accounts for all variation. My darling and I have had FMF threesomes for quite a while. Unless the girls are committed to each other a long-term threesome won't work. If the male is sensitive to his partner's wants and needs, the "hot time" threesome is a fine idea.

 me and my boyfriend of almost two years were drinking and an ex roommates house.. my boyfriend( well call him bob) has always had this fantasy of me getting it on with another man.. Me, on the other hand, always thought it was a trap. us three were drinking and i decied to go to beddue to the fact that i had to get up to a 4 month old at 7 in the moring. we were all pertty hammered. bob and the roommate come in the room and after some long convenceing talks from bob, it happened.. ive never see him so aroused. and to my surprised i liked it!! so far we've never been this happy about our sex life, and its kinda improved our relationship too. Sometimes i feel bad about it though.. i like i cheated on him, but we still talk about doing it again

its not for everybody. but it is for us!!

Well if you try it then the odds are you may become a child abuser some day and end up in prison.Also hell is a hot place for alot of people and for me sometimes satan likes to tempt me.Also I do wach it but I cover the private parts from my hand.I have to pass the temptations more often or it will be harder for me to escape being devoured by hell.Also you may wanna think about not doing it until after marriage or youll become a monster like most other people are when they hit high school or college.

If its two girls one guy then its hot as f**k. I love it. Its good if your single, not such a good look if your in a relationship.

I was as well the one left out, but only i was the WIFE.
i second this advice! DO NOT GIVE IN!
*It better if its a complete stranger, and not planned.. hurts way less and i wouldnt be so jealous*

I wanted a lesbian experience and my husband always had a fantasy to have two girls, I mean I don't have any idea of a guy who wouldn't..

So I gave in,

I found this really cute girl and she was Down, my husband and I hate set boundaries..

*Rules were that I got to do my lesbian thing and he got to watch, and after we were to perform oral on my husband ONLY.*

(he was to not enterfer with the expeiment, only to be teased and touch himself because we were to perform oral on him after)

 So we so get the girl and bring her back to the house were chilling and he starts asking questions like he wanted to change up and have a "regular three-way" instead of what we had planned.

So me being in the moment i said yes only thinking he would do that for little bit,well he ended up going the whole night without even paying any mind to me, like its like they were the only ones involved.

I did my part, i performed oral on the woman as well as my man..

Now I'm mad at him for not pleasuring me and also for taking advantage of the situation,

Am i in the wrong to be mad at him?

Ok so I have a question ! I been in a 3 some and I'm the girlfriend or toy what every u wanna call me and I really like both of them but they thing about it is they want me as there girlfriend witch I like the attention from both ! I get to have sex with both of them when I want but I'm scared someone's gonna get jeolous and this is my first 3 som and I love it I do it just about evey weekend with then ! They take me out and wine and dine me so! But I'm nevous u like the girl but I have more feelings for the guy and I like the girl but I don't want to ruin anyone's relationship ! And idk what to do so can someone help me ? I want to stay it's so much fun but I'm worried cuz it's the wife that wants a women ! And he's just in it cuz he wants his wife happy! And reason y they any a girl is cuz she cheated on him witha girl and she didn't tell them now they have a no lie thing and they want a long time girlfriend we are about 20 years different in age with me and them ! But I like them older ! So I'm asking what should I do and how or shook I keep doin it cuz I love it oh and they want to buy a house so I can live with them ?

I have had a threesome with 3 different partners. The first was a girl I wasn't even dating yet and her friend so it didn't effect our relationship much, we ended up having a wonderful relationship for 3 years after that night. the second was my wife at the time. We actually had a threesome on 2 occasions one was with a willing friend of hers and was mostly "about me" which was OK but I'm a very unselfish person in bed and wish there could have been more pleasure in it for her, the second was more about her (my wife) the third and latest was with my current girlfriend and her friend. We both kinda just dominated her friend who loved every second of it. I approached all three situations with the utmost care and caution. I loved my wife with all my heart and honestly feel those experiences brought us closer together! I was soooooo happy she would do that for me and she was happy to get to explore a fantasy with no jealously or fear. I just think 2 women together is SEXY. Bottom line if you're in a secure confident relationship it can be an amazing experience to share. If not it could be trouble.

If it's just fun sex no expectation

In my experience, it has been all good - my parter and I (both F) have a wonderful friend (M) and our friendship has expanded to include a sexual relationship. We are all in our late 40's/early 50's.  So far, it has been extremely positive for us all. It has awakened our sexuality in a way that nothing else evey could have. My partner and I are as close as ever - a huge part of this is talking - honest communication. It is vital to this experience.