threesome & effect on a relationship

A good old fashioned cuckold relationship is a great way to relieve monotony in a sexual stale relationship.

Just sit back while you watch your partner getting ploughed by another person. It stirs up all sorts of sexual feelings from jealousy, lust and voyourism.

It's worth a try

Hi, can you please share your experience, I am the same boat

that is sad. I think it needs to be discussed well ahead of time what is acceptable. We have been married 22 years and as you say at first it is a way to bring some excitement. the trouble is couples get addicted or forget yhe whole point was to spice up the marriage, so the third person should never get more attention than the husband or wife. We dont do it often at all. In fact we have a once a year rule. it gives us something to look forward to. When the times gets close we start talking about it and planning that builds the excitement. At the time on 2 separate days, we do FFM and MMF. guess thats twice a year, I prefer MMF and hubby prefers FFM this way no one gets jealous and we make a point of giving each other 60% of the attention as 3rd person is there to add to our sexual realtionship. We have done this for a few years now and can honestly say I enjoy having 2 men fuss over me immensely and also find I love watching my husband having sex with another woman in my presence, it turns me on!! We find it gives our sex life an awesome boost afterwards. It can be a really good addition to a happy marriage but if you have problems its more likely to make it worse

My husband screwed another woman in front of me for almost 4 hours on my birthday weekend, it was supposed to be 3some and he swore she knew it was but she kept pushing my advances away. He even saw me laying on the floor and kept on. Then I had to clean up the hotel room, he wanted me to lay in her wet stop, get her coffee and food. A. Threesome has ruined my entire life! I hate myself and I am nothing but a shell of a person. He has never even given me a reason why! Said I should of stopped it, he missed read me, all I got was a sorry and more blame. We had been together over 25 years. He also screwed her in a hotel only after I met her one time and we didn't even communicate. He swears he made it clear a threesome was the goal but she personally told me he never said that or hinted. She also said it was always about him and her having she told him she has feelings, loved him and would date him if not for me. Plus he said he has never had such a strong instant connection with someone before and their friendship means allot to him. In addition, he screwed by himself a married best friend of mine. Now that friendship is ruined. And within weeks of us being married and while I was pregnant and after our first child was born he was getting blow jobs and cooked meals from a co-worker. And yet he thinks we belong together?? Please if you have not had a 3some , don't , in the end it will destroy you and multiple relationships, it's Pandora's box.

For a 3some to work you have to set the rules and be in control. Me and my bf did a 3some with a girl that we both knew. She is sexually submissive so I used that to my advantage by making it clear to both of them that it would be done my way or it wouldn't happen. They both agreed and I made sure that my bf gave me the attention that I wanted. The other girl was just used as our sex toy but she was happy with that. So was I and so was my bf.

Did it both ways 2 women one my wife was good for me but, works better with 2 or 3 men & my wife who I loved deeply & loved me as much. That is the most important part. It was so much better that way. Wife totally cuts loose when comfortable husband isn't going to drive her nut because she's begging the men to fill her p***y with their cum. Never did the cuckold stuff except watching kids when she went out to get screwed. Her lover soon became a friend of mine would help set her up with his friends. I'm not gay so she knew my favorite was watching and loved making love to her with a cum filled p***y. She loved multiple men cum in her but she often went out with one man at a time too. She was so sexy & her eyes would glaze over in lust. I've been present while 7 men me the 8th would be limp after unloading in her several time she get'em hard again. Lose track of all her orgasms, poetry in motion watching her work at what she loved most.

Exactly how I feel.

I was in the same position we talked about for months. When it happened I had fun but at times I felt left out and felt that my bf was very turned on by the girl. Although she was very pretty. I also had sex with the girl btw. But the day after was awful. My self esteem and confidence was shattered and I felt that he was going to cheap on my with her given the opportunity. Even though I know he loves me. So unless ypu are in a good mental place I wouldn’t do it

Beautiful! Thank you for sharing your experience with us. you are a strong and brave woman to me. Hope you and your partner are doing good together!

My husband and I hade been marrried for 6 years and we were unbreakable. We had been through so much together already in life and finally got to a point of complete love and trust. Eventually I told him about a fantasy I had about a threesome. Thinking he would totally blow it off or laugh at the idea! He never talked about it, asked for it, or even thought about it. We were happy and had an amazing sex life anyways. Well when I brought it up we talked about it and it seemed fun, amazing, exciting, and sexually pleasing. I did have my nerves about it thibking it could lead to jealousy, being left out, him being more sexually attracted to her, ect. My nerves were conpletely shot at some point. He was in the hype of it telling mw we had to do it before I changed my mind because I needed to fulfil my fantasy for me! In the process he was so into finding all these women and I fully let him take control of the situation. I know thats probably why things didmt work out. Well about a month later we found the perfect person and met up at thw bar. We had a few drinks and I could tell he waa more into it than I was. We had rules set before anything started. Common ones like no touching or kissing while the other partner isnt around. We decided to take her back to our place and he continued with the flirting and make her feel comfortable. I joined in and it was amazing! The fwwling were great sone I have nevwr felt before. Seeing him so turned on by another woman was sexy at the time. With in a few hours she left and we were talking and I had some issues. I was the one left out. When bringing this up to him he said it was because she was new and she was coming into this as a single person to a couple sbe would feel nervous! But i was the most nervous one out of all of us. I should have been the one paid moat attention to since I was the wife and it was my idea! But he kept telling me it was ok and next time would be different. So we did it a couple times to try and change my feelings and he always paid more attention to the other woman. We discussed it later on and he said its because it was hot seeing her do things to me while he did things to her. It never changed. It became a topic he obsessed over. Every woman from then on was a "candidate". He always talked about the other girl and how she made it feel for days and days after. When in the beginning he would always tell me nothing would change and our bond was too strong. It ruined everything for us. Yes we are still married but our now sex life is non existant compared to before. I wish I would have kept my mouth shut. He was the perfect husband who loved me dearly and I loved him more and more each day! Now I feel he cant look at me the same.

planning to try but afraid things will go wrong

The one time I tried to have a threesome was with my boyfriend whom I loved very much. I was excited over the fact that is was going to be MMF but the night of he found a girl and told me that he was not, in fact, comfortable with MMF and didn't even ask me if I was comfortable with FFM. I thought our love was so strong so I agreed to a threesome with another woman, but I was so jealous. He payed more attention to her by far and I was too scared to do anything because she looked much better than me. (I have kind of alternative style, she was a little more basic but very conventionally attractive whereas I am very doughfaced but I clean up okay with makeup. When my bf and I would have sex with just us he never gave me what I wanted, never really catered to my needs, but he did everything this girl wanted and screwed her hard while I just had to watch. Ended up crying in the bathroom and walking around the block while they finish, we didn't break up for another year while he continued to degrade my mental health.

Oh my.. it sounds like what I’ve always imagined it would be, had I went along with tjem mwhen my Ex- husband asked me about. Well, That WAS and IS my biggest fear. I’ve always been curious about it, but I do not believe I will ever think about it again.

I’m so sorry for everything you’ve gone through, and I know it’s tough for you~ emotionally; the awful repercussions of the decisions that, or was made.

I'm So Sorry..Been married for 25 years and tried the same. Just with another man, wanted all the attention on her. It was Great and No jealous feelings!

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