threesome & effect on a relationship

HI . We have been married 22 years. Our sex life is ok nothing huge. Prior to marriage i had 38 lovers. All guys i dated but there were alot. My Husband maybe 4. I have always wanted to try a MMF Threesome. I mean two guys ( Hubby being one) focusing on me and working to ring my bell should be fun. I was pretty persistent and we tried it with a stripper hubby sent to the house. I'm going fast here with my explanation to save time. We made it as The stripp came and did his thing. One to another i started to blow him. I'm good at it as its my favorite part of sex so i knew he would want to have sex with me. After i would say ten minutes of blowing him he just pulled me up and put me over our love seat couch and was going at it. That was Hubbys q to come in and be surprised. The stripper was surprised but Hubby was cool and said dont let me interrupt jokingly. Eventually hubby came around the front of me and i resumed my favorite. They each kept taking turns in different positions and it ended with me letting them face screw me to the end. This was alot to take in for us but it never hurt our marriage. we have since had four more with the same person . It seemed to play itself out after a while and we just resumed our regular sex life, but like on steroids with more passion. Sandy Carr. New Jersey

Gave me alot of insight.
Thank you

I realize you posted your comment over a year ago, so you may not even see (or receive) my reply...Reading your comment about everything you were put through, broke my heart. I'm so sorry he treated you that way & the heartache he caused you. I can relate to the part about the 3'some. Several years ago, my boyfriend at the time (we had been together for 3 years) and I had a 3'some with one of our female coworkers. She was temporarily staying with us while she was looking for an apartment, & one night, a game of 'Truth or Dare' ended up turning into a 3'some. (None of us were even drinking). I admit I've always been (slightly) the 'jealous type' but never too much, & while it was happening and even after we were done and she had went to her bedroom, it didn't bother me at all. The next day, though, was a completely different story. Reality set in that, even though I was fully involved the entire time, I saw my boyfriend (whom I loved) having sex (and enjoying it extremely) with another woman. He & I had to go to Walmart the day after the 3'some happened, and I literally cried/sobbed throughout the entire store while we were shopping. Biggest case of regret (jealousy/insecurity I have ever experienced in my entire life because he may have enjoyed HER more than me. It was horrible and totally not worth it.

I personally think it can have a positive effect if your relationship is strong and you understand the reasons you want a threesome. I personally think its best to include a friend rather then a stranger, if possible.