Trouble staying hard during sex

Am 34 and experiencing the same problem. At first I never had this problem but it started like 4 months ago and it's really giving me a scare. Sometimes am even scared of having sex with my wife. What's the best solution to this.

You have a uti or yest infection I would get checked

Smoke
Over weight

Not a problem when I masterbate

Hi my boyfriend and I sometimes quarrel a lot so would that affect him? Because when is time for sex he is hard and as soon as he enter less than 5mint he went soft and he is trying to keep it in ,so it's distracting to me, I need him to be hard until we finish .

Definitely. Had the same problem 10-12 years ago. Ironically, the quarrel was about sex (the lack of it). In the middle it I would lose concentration (because of the resentments) and then lose it. I will relieve myself afterwards but somehow felt I have revenged. Nowadays it didn't improve (in frequency), but I have totally given up in my mind. Still have the same problem, maybe less often. 5 min is actually not too bad, though ideally it should be 15 min in the actual action, plus 15 min before it. Sorry, I am a work freak, maybe that was my problem with her.

I'm 25 and going through the same thing I stay hard when she rides me ect then when we do missionary I start to go soft...missionary is like 80% of what we do now and it seems like when I start it's good but when it comes out it's hard to get erect again I don't know if I have ED or I'm just tired of missionary....I think I need to stop masturbating..plus im overweight and smoke tobacco....my girlfriend is beautiful too and very patient and helpful so I jus want to help satisfy her needs plus my own too smh HELP!!!!

I smoke but don't have the problem when masterbating just when making love to My wife

Hi I'm 33 years old and have a great beautiful lady I get hard and by the time I'm going in I'm soft I was a big addict growing up and now just want a great future with my wife I get off in mins during sex or fourplay I'm tired of being a one min man and would like to know what o can do to last and stat hard

Like how you put it on the woman to spice it up, LOL. Takes two to tango boyfriend.

I smoke
I do take legal drugs

there are lots of factor if you have trouble to keep it hard during intercourse such as, unhealthy diet, stress, smoking, excessive alcohol, fatty body

you need to improve it and work on yourself

there are lots of medicine and medical treatment to avoid or cure this condition

you can also buy online medicine from online pharmacy medexpressrx to treat your ED issue

 

I'm not an expert but I know this far by experience & BEING A MAN! Lol One thing for sure that I think it might be causing it & may cause some controversy or negative response with my reply BUT I think it might help, is don't masturbate. When you masturbate, you are provoking it & the erection doesn't come naturally, so you're teaching or making your mind,body,hormones and arousement to come by forcing it instead of letting your attraction, thoughts & your feelings & your hormones be triggered by just the attraction you feel NATURALLY towards your girlfriend. If you research, guys that don't masturbate have more "wet dreams" & natural/unprovoked erections than those that do. Cause the ones that do Mast. have been teaching their mind and body to be aroused by Mast. not just letting it happen naturally. I didn't experience masturbation until around 24yrs old. I definítely didn't have erection problems when i started thinking of a girl or attracted towards a girl. Of course i would contigo myself but you ended up having an erection & ejaculation w/o Even Mast. (Its possible & had always been. I know some guys know what im talking about here.) There was a big difference little by little that I started noticing. my arousals weren't always natural cause I Mast. & for sure alot LESS wet dreams. Which, whoever has had wet dreams knows what I'm talking about. As a young guy, & even now older in my 40s, it was something I actually looked forward to having. I think wet dreams are a healthy sign that you can get an erection w/o forcing it. & I'll tell you, that a natural arousal is ALOT better than forcing it cause you feel all these attractions by what you like & you still get the hard on & stuff al over you body. The key to the arousal is "keeping your hands to yourself" on yourself (instead, use them on your GF by carressing her & touching her.
Whatever your GF let's you or she does to u but YOU keep your hands away from YOU. ) & patience. Lol