I'm so scared rite now... :'(

I am 23 yrs old and early last yr- jan/feb 2007 i had unprotected sex with two people at different times. Presently I am in a serious long distance relationship with my new boyfriend. We have been together for 9 months now. Since its longdistance we do not have sex on a regular basis. However when we do, we always protect ourselves. I am a bit worried though cause i always bleed 3-4 days after getting intimate with him. Im thinking maybe it could b one of the three problems:

- Ive always had menstruation issues. I first saw my period at 17 yrs old and from since then it comes very irregularly. I went to the doctor long ago and he says its normal and that most athletic girls don't see their period regularly.

- Maybe it could be that i don't have sex reguarly since its a long distance relationship. In the nine months that we've been together we only saw it other about 3-4 times n had protected sex approximately 6-8 times in the 9 months.

- maybe something is seriously wrong with me...


I am so scaredd... Ive never got an hiv test before and im nervous to.
pleasee helpp mee
:-( :'(