Okay so, I'm currently STILL a virgin, but me and my boyfriend are planning on having sex during Christmas Break which is indeed far from now, but most of my friends told me what's it like having sex, you hear them going "Oh you'll bleed for sure girl" Or "Yeah your hymen will break when he sticks it in there ;-)" And another goes " You'll bleed about a table spoon or so once he pops it!"
But what's it really like? Is it really that painful when he thrust it in there? Or will it be like a pinch?
Cause I heard the guy might have to hold you down if you squirm too much cause it kinda hurts, and it might not fit in cause it's too long and your too short (I'm about 5"3 currently) And my boyfriend is around 5"8 and his penis is like 7.5 (Dunno if that will fit or not...)
And what are the after affects after having sexual intercourse? Will anything happen to my Vagina? Cause the only thing I know is I gotta wait till 2-3days for it to recover.... And after I wait for those days to pass by can I still have sex after that? Or will I still have to wait for my vaginal to recover?
So yeah I really would like to know what are the after affects after sexual intercourse so I can be ready Lol. :-P
But what's it really like? Is it really that painful when he thrust it in there? Or will it be like a pinch?
Cause I heard the guy might have to hold you down if you squirm too much cause it kinda hurts, and it might not fit in cause it's too long and your too short (I'm about 5"3 currently) And my boyfriend is around 5"8 and his penis is like 7.5 (Dunno if that will fit or not...)
And what are the after affects after having sexual intercourse? Will anything happen to my Vagina? Cause the only thing I know is I gotta wait till 2-3days for it to recover.... And after I wait for those days to pass by can I still have sex after that? Or will I still have to wait for my vaginal to recover?
So yeah I really would like to know what are the after affects after sexual intercourse so I can be ready Lol. :-P
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How old are you anyway? If you're old enough
to handle an unplanned pregnancy and can
take the emotional aspects that come with
losing it, then I say go for it. If you're not
prepared, then I say its definitely something
you should wait on.
This coming from a fifteen year old.
I heard the same things from friends
and really the bleeding depends on
you. some women don't even have
the hymen, i've heard and don't
bleed.
I had a faint tinge of brown after the first time,
but the bleeding should not be as much as your friends say.
It is excruciatingly painful the first time.
Your height doesn't matter at ALL in regards
to if he'll fit. But understand you'll be so sore
and so tight that it will hurt for him to get it
in all the way and being relaxed and loosening
up will help you to not feel so much pain; the
worrying only makes you tighter and pain worse.
If he holds you down and your squirming
or trying to get away or something,
that sounds like some kind of assult or
something. . .
Obviously you will hurt after.
Your back may or may not hurt depending
on the hardness of the surface or severity
of his thrusts which could push you further
into the matress, and yes, hurt your lower back.
It may take longer than those days to recover,
its all depending on you.
You can have sex afterwards because you
will need to get used to it otherwise long
waits will have you closing up down there
and re experiencing that pain.
Not only will you be hurt physically
but be ready for it mentally and emotionally.
you're practically giving yourself away to this boy and
seriously need to make sure you're both ready if anything happens.
I am fifteen and am currently pregnant.
I hope for your sake and his you're
both mature enough to handle if something
like this happens and that you will use protection
because STDs and unplanned pregnancy can kill a relationship.
Just be sure and don't stress out too much
since you know if its the right thing to do.
Use protection, knowing it could not work,
as in my case, and be careful you're giving
that up to someone who really deserves it.
He won't care or mind so much since he's a guy
and can go put it in other people whenever, but
YOU will live with the burden of knowing that he
took that from you and has that over you, so
please be careful :-)
Best of luck to you,
please don't go rushing into anything you're not ready for
and use protection! I know I made a mistake, obviously
opting for sex at this age, but if I can help other girls
avoid such a thing, it would make something matter to me :-)
So good luck, be careful and PROTECTION!
:-)
to handle an unplanned pregnancy and can
take the emotional aspects that come with
losing it, then I say go for it. If you're not
prepared, then I say its definitely something
you should wait on.
This coming from a fifteen year old.
I heard the same things from friends
and really the bleeding depends on
you. some women don't even have
the hymen, i've heard and don't
bleed.
I had a faint tinge of brown after the first time,
but the bleeding should not be as much as your friends say.
It is excruciatingly painful the first time.
Your height doesn't matter at ALL in regards
to if he'll fit. But understand you'll be so sore
and so tight that it will hurt for him to get it
in all the way and being relaxed and loosening
up will help you to not feel so much pain; the
worrying only makes you tighter and pain worse.
If he holds you down and your squirming
or trying to get away or something,
that sounds like some kind of assult or
something. . .
Obviously you will hurt after.
Your back may or may not hurt depending
on the hardness of the surface or severity
of his thrusts which could push you further
into the matress, and yes, hurt your lower back.
It may take longer than those days to recover,
its all depending on you.
You can have sex afterwards because you
will need to get used to it otherwise long
waits will have you closing up down there
and re experiencing that pain.
Not only will you be hurt physically
but be ready for it mentally and emotionally.
you're practically giving yourself away to this boy and
seriously need to make sure you're both ready if anything happens.
I am fifteen and am currently pregnant.
I hope for your sake and his you're
both mature enough to handle if something
like this happens and that you will use protection
because STDs and unplanned pregnancy can kill a relationship.
Just be sure and don't stress out too much
since you know if its the right thing to do.
Use protection, knowing it could not work,
as in my case, and be careful you're giving
that up to someone who really deserves it.
He won't care or mind so much since he's a guy
and can go put it in other people whenever, but
YOU will live with the burden of knowing that he
took that from you and has that over you, so
please be careful :-)
Best of luck to you,
please don't go rushing into anything you're not ready for
and use protection! I know I made a mistake, obviously
opting for sex at this age, but if I can help other girls
avoid such a thing, it would make something matter to me :-)
So good luck, be careful and PROTECTION!
:-)
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Lol, thank you so much for the advice, and yes we are going to use protection, (He doesn't want to do the Pull-out method, too much risk) And we had discussed about this, we both really love eachother so much and we both wanna feel more between eachother, but if we're both ready for this then I'm sure we can handle this. And I'm just nervous about the hurting part *shivers*
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I am curious as well as your age but heres my experience...
we were both 21 and we waited about... 3 1/2 months into our relationship, he was my first and i was his second (only slept with his ex twice before they broke up due to her cheating) we fooled around a bit exploring each other before taking it to the next level. I told him i was a little scared of it and he said we wouldnt do anything till i was ready. We talked about the ramification from us being together....pregnancy, how it will change our relationship, the emotional aspect and what protection to use. I went on the pill and as much as we wanted to do more we waited the full 2 weeks it reccomends for maximum effect. I finally told him i was ready and we just went slow, kissing, massaging, exploring each other and then it happend... for me no blood, no pain, it was a great feeling, we were stairing strait into each others eyes when it happend and it was pretty much perfect.
I think the key to your first time is relaxation, love and knowing its right. I was sure it was the right time and right guy with chris... and this november will be 2 years of being together and still going strong.
Of course it might be different for you as everyones different but for me... that was the key... and if your real young just rethink it, it might just be your hormones driving you crazy and not truely something your ready for and wont be able to handle emotionally. Good luck and always be smart.
we were both 21 and we waited about... 3 1/2 months into our relationship, he was my first and i was his second (only slept with his ex twice before they broke up due to her cheating) we fooled around a bit exploring each other before taking it to the next level. I told him i was a little scared of it and he said we wouldnt do anything till i was ready. We talked about the ramification from us being together....pregnancy, how it will change our relationship, the emotional aspect and what protection to use. I went on the pill and as much as we wanted to do more we waited the full 2 weeks it reccomends for maximum effect. I finally told him i was ready and we just went slow, kissing, massaging, exploring each other and then it happend... for me no blood, no pain, it was a great feeling, we were stairing strait into each others eyes when it happend and it was pretty much perfect.
I think the key to your first time is relaxation, love and knowing its right. I was sure it was the right time and right guy with chris... and this november will be 2 years of being together and still going strong.
Of course it might be different for you as everyones different but for me... that was the key... and if your real young just rethink it, it might just be your hormones driving you crazy and not truely something your ready for and wont be able to handle emotionally. Good luck and always be smart.
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