I am 36 years old, I hve a very good job, earn a good salary, i can have what ever i like but at the same tim i am very bored, i want to change my life. My problem is that i am a very shy person and dont know how to create new friends.. I dont have a girlfriend although i have the potential to have many, i approached many girls and the showed some kine of acceptance but i didnt know how to take the relationship further.. i am even shy of going to a coffe shop, i feel everyone would be looking at me and i dont even know what to have when i go there.. i really feel that i have a very boring life and shouldnt a life because i am unnoticed, can anyone help me over come this feeling?