I need help!! I am 16 and a virgin. I have been having a problem with my inner labia and clitoral hood for a few years now. It's not so much the way it looks its the pain. Say for example I sit down wrong my labia start hurting. Or if its rubbing against my clothes.... owww!! And when i touch myself (doesn't even have to be sexual) my inner labia and clitoral hood get's extremely irritated and swollen. It's painful and my confidence is paying the price. I can't afford surgery and don't know how to talk to my mum about this. What can I do? Can someone please help me?