When I was younger I held my pee in a lot. And since 5th grade everytime I have to pee my body takes control, so to speak and this temporary pain happens and when this happens I have to hold the pee in or my bladder will just let it all go on my pants. I have grown to be used to this pain and I have tried regular schedules of bathroom time. And nothing has worked. And I'm afraid that it will be like this forever. I don't want my kids to be in the bathroom and they open the door and I'm sitting on the floor holding in my pee because "mommy's bladder is broken" any advice?