why are my breast very firm & sore, I'm 47 years old. I stopped having a cycle 1/2003 & started back 3/2008 & has had a cycle ever since very heavy very few mild ones, feel no signs of menopause like I did when I stopped, totally miserable through those years, anyway I've become sexual active in the past year & half with the same partner & he had a vasectomy many many years ago & he is now 63 years old & still active without any use of medication. My partner has also notice my breast & has questioned me. I am very faith & honest 7 he knows that I am, but he asked me why & I have no clue as of why. I don't feel or have any menopause symptoms, what could be going on?