My boyfriend and i have been together for nearly 3 years. we dont have sex anymore. everythings still the same. just no sex. when confronted he finally told me he's been on lithium and seroquil and so many others medications even one med that used to give him constant erections, he feels its just not going to be the same ever again. i kno he still gets erections but has no interest n sex with me or anyone else. but the bigger issue is when i masterbate now, once im done i get floods of emotion. thoughts like why wouldnt he want to have sex with me if i really wanted to. if he says he loves me, when lots of other guys would want too? and i start to cry. nearly everytime to where im afraid to even masturbate anymore. what should i do to help myself with these issues?
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Well you should see different positions that would make you feel good when he does it. You should also google ways to to make it easier for his penis to go inside since you never done it.
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maybe it hurts you or you may have an infection were you are not cleanin it properly trust me it happend to my boyfriend and hes jus 15 xx---------------------------
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When you deal with the issues of anti-depressants and anti pyscotic medications there are always side effects. A friends husband takes Paxil everyday, She would rather have him calm than to be screwing a crazy man. They effect people in a lot of different ways. I take a high dosage of wellbutron,along with meds for copd. My insurance made me try paxil and zoloft before they would ok the wellbuton. I am single and I didn't want any sexual side effects. I have no problems. But the other two didn't give me ED, I just could not orgasm, was frustrating. He is able if he gets hard, and should consider your feelings in this. It won't hurt him to lay there while you have sex, he may even enjoy it. He is being controlled by his meds,and has given up. Tell him that you have needs to fulfill and he needs to understand that. I know women who gave their husband oral sex while in a bodycast. If he still doesn't respond and divorce is not an option you want to pursue, Consider a male escort,or someone that you know sex would not have an emotional attachment with. There are to many risks to use just anyone, he should be hiv-, and free of any STD's. You may want to ask his Dr. if he knows of any solutions, such as a different drug or something to make him want sex. The purpose of marraige is to be with one partner that you love, if you didn't know the situation before getting married, then he is the one at fault for not being honest about his condition. You need to respect yourself enough not to sacrifice your well being over his Illness. If he didn't respect you enough to tell you, it is the same as having a drinking or gambling habit or terminal illness and get married with out letting you know. Respect yourself, because he hasn't.
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