today is tuesday and sunday night i was hanging out with this guy i knew from school. we had kinda known each other since middle school (i know him but not that well). we were making out and he had eaten me out and fingered me. then as we kept going we were going to have sex (im a virgin). i know he has been with many girls as well. he was intoxicated and said he would just pull out and that i could trust him. im like NO thats BS! so he went inside to get a condom and came out and said he didnt have one. so we didnt have sex. i had taken my panties off and we were thrusting. he was jacking off and our parts were touching. i didnt see really or feel anything come out. then i put my panties back on and he kept doing so and basically sticking tip of his penis in my vagina with my panties on (sounds strange but he was basically thrusting so im still a virgin and my hymin wasnt broken) after this i took my panties off once again and he fingered me and i really dont know if he has seman on his hands or anything.
out of this story do you think there could be any way i could be pregnant? today is june 28th and my last period was june 5th so it should be coming withing the next week or so. im 16 and dont always know exactly when im going to get it still. PLEASE PLEASE HELP!
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Hi honey! you are NOT pregnant! You cut it close but there was no unobstructed penile penetration with live sperm. Sperm starts dying off as soon as it's in the air, and also it can't go through fabric - unless there has been ejaculation through it!
So relax - as if you are stressed about it, it could delay your period OK?
NOW I want you to re read what you wrote here. I realize that you are a hormonal teenager, BUT you are also a virgin - and good for you - you already knew that he was BSing you, yet you went FAR further than you should have with a guy you barely know who was NOT protected! So think about it for a minute! You were going to give this guy - who you don't even really like or foget about loving - and you were going to give the ULTIMATE gift up to him - and he couldn't respect you enough to use protection! And if you EVER listen to anything someone says listen to this - you CAN get prengnant at ANYTIME, and ANY length of time - even a second - and also even if he is dry! The guy WILL tell you, that you can't - because he is too lazy to protect you both! And I want you to re read this message and think "What would my family have done IF I was pregnant from this guy I barely knew?" And also due to the fact that he couldn't care less about YOU and didn't use a condom, do you really think someone like him would be there to help you raise a baby, or give you money to get an abortion? the answer to that is NO! And also he has been with MANY girls - which means that IF you had had unprotected sex with him you TOO would have had sex with ALL of those girls - as you don't know their sexual history and if they had a STI or even if he had!
RESPECT YOURSELF AND YOUR GIFT AND YOUR FUTURE OK? This should be a wake up call for you to NEVER be in this position again!
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