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Guest over a year ago

M about to get married at the end of this year, m 20 and m very very afraid. Actually I don't like sex or to be touched by anyone even If thats my husband. I can't even think or imagin someone to touch me or do something else like undressing me.kissing and hugging is fine but not more than that, help me :(

CamoGirlVet283197 over a year ago

Have you talked this over with your soon-to-be husband?

Did something happen to you when you were younger that has made you so afraid?

I'm also afraid of the first time I have sex, though I'd prefer it to be making love. I am so afraid that if I'm touched a certain way that I'll flashback to what happened when I was a baby and young child; a child's mind is very effective at erasing such traumatic memories. I'm afraid that I will not only scare myself, but scare my partner away and he won't want to be with such damaged goods.

I am hoping my future partner will love me for me and will be understanding and compassionate towards me if that does happen; that he won't force me into doing anything I'm not comfortable with doing. I'm also hoping your husband is the same way.

Good luck and all the best.

I hope I helped.