Hey Everyone, This will probably sound weird but Ive never been able to find a place where I can get a solid answer or ask questions for help till now.
Okay im 16 turning 17 soon, And im not in a relationship but i would love to be. But my only problem is i don't believe im good enough for one when it becomes a serious relationship and im embarrassed to go into one becuase im afraid on how long i will last in bed.
When i masturbate, i usually last about a minute. And i know this is way to short. But im not sure if its just normal for mi age and will eventually last longer. When i do masturbate im looking at well pictures of woman of coarse so, when it comes to the real thing not a picture or movie, im afraid I'll be less then a minute. Im just not sure and im hoping that i do not have premature ejaculation. Help me please.
Okay im 16 turning 17 soon, And im not in a relationship but i would love to be. But my only problem is i don't believe im good enough for one when it becomes a serious relationship and im embarrassed to go into one becuase im afraid on how long i will last in bed.
When i masturbate, i usually last about a minute. And i know this is way to short. But im not sure if its just normal for mi age and will eventually last longer. When i do masturbate im looking at well pictures of woman of coarse so, when it comes to the real thing not a picture or movie, im afraid I'll be less then a minute. Im just not sure and im hoping that i do not have premature ejaculation. Help me please.
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Hi, please relax and stop worrying. When masturbating you will often cum quickly - you don't necessaily want to last ages! You can try several techniques to delay your ejaculation (such as the squeeze technique - just look at some of the other posts). However, you will be fine and shouldn't worry. Noone will expect you to be the greatest porn star the first time you have sex! It takes practice. Relax and enjoy yourself. Regards, John ;-)
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The good news is that this is a problem that is highly curable, providing the man is willing to get help and invest the time and effort needed. It is believed that 80% to 90% of men are able to learn better control through therapy.
The first step to lasting longer is to become familiar with one's self. Be comfortable with your body, its sensations and the feelings leading up to orgasm. You should learn and be able to predict when the orgasm will occur. This will prevent it from creeping up on you and taking you by surprise. This will also help you do what is necessary to prevent you from reaching that "point of no return."
The "stop and start" method involves bringing yourself just before the point of no return and stopping all movement before it is too late. When the urgency to ejaculate subsides, start thrusting again, and repeat several times.
This can also be practiced using your partner's hand, mouth or even by yourself. It may require some trial and error, as you may pass that point accidentally.
The first step to lasting longer is to become familiar with one's self. Be comfortable with your body, its sensations and the feelings leading up to orgasm. You should learn and be able to predict when the orgasm will occur. This will prevent it from creeping up on you and taking you by surprise. This will also help you do what is necessary to prevent you from reaching that "point of no return."
The "stop and start" method involves bringing yourself just before the point of no return and stopping all movement before it is too late. When the urgency to ejaculate subsides, start thrusting again, and repeat several times.
This can also be practiced using your partner's hand, mouth or even by yourself. It may require some trial and error, as you may pass that point accidentally.
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