Hi ladies, I had my daughter 9 weeks ago & i had my first period 3 weeks ago (well i think it was it was very light and only lasted 3days) anyways i had sex the day it finished and i had one drop or actual blood a few hours after sex now its been 3 weeks since the intercourse and last night i had the most terrible cramps in my womb type area and lower back (like i was ready for my period) and ive had the same cramps on and off today in just my pelvic region so i took a clear blue test and it came back as not pregnant. Im so confused as i have the tender nipples ive had the horrid headache that wont go away, the rich white milky discharge, the fatigue that ive still got now everything points to pregnancy apart from the negative test!!! PLEASE HELPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP