my baby is now 9 months old and i have been dealing with her bowels problem for the last 3 months and i have gone to doctors and it is still the same can you help.she is on formula and i have changed her to many other kinds without iron and it is the same.she holds it in for about 3 to 4 days and when it comes it is painful and the size of the poo is a big as a grapefruit.she cries and all they said to do was to try and make it come out with my hands helping her,they also said to use suppositories.can you tell me what to do because i hate to see her crie like that and i know she is in pain.is there anything i can give her to help,should i put her on homo milk instead of the formulas she is 9 months old now.i have given her water and vegetables what else do i do.thanks