Okay so I liked this guy for a few months and we had sort of a rivalry relasionship so i knew he would never like me back. Which i was ok with. I never told anyone except my BFFFL. Anyway so one day im with my other friend and she is all "when did he get so hot." Blar blar. And within the next month they are going out. Now though after 8 months, I am still like upset about it. And since she dumped him he is still after her. And he isnt even that cute. And he is a geek, but wenever i see him. Urgh, the feelings are confusing me. But i never even went out with him and i feel this way. HEEEELLppp me.
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Maybe you guys had a rivalry relationship because he liked you back. Not trying to give you false hope, just wondering one thing. Did you ever talk to him about your feelings?
Either way I see you're wanting to get over him. Sometimes with certain guys, you never get totally over them, but you can move past it. Try totally investing yourself in something. Like a sport or an art form or something on your bucket list. You could also get over him by making yourself more open to other guys. Just look for someone new to have feelings for.
About him chasing after your friend. Just ignore that. That may be hard to do, but you can direct the conversation away from him. Or you can leave when you're uncomfortable with what's going on.
Good Luck! :)
Either way I see you're wanting to get over him. Sometimes with certain guys, you never get totally over them, but you can move past it. Try totally investing yourself in something. Like a sport or an art form or something on your bucket list. You could also get over him by making yourself more open to other guys. Just look for someone new to have feelings for.
About him chasing after your friend. Just ignore that. That may be hard to do, but you can direct the conversation away from him. Or you can leave when you're uncomfortable with what's going on.
Good Luck! :)
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I havent particularly talked to him about it. We arent really that close or whatever. Me and my friend though we never talk directly about more like she refers to things he told her and stuff.
And i also thought he liked me back when we used to argue and stuff but im done thinking that. Tonight i saw him and we actually talked as in an actual convasation as opposed to... How we usually are. Anyway sorry i know you didnt ask for my life story.
Tx 4 the Advice :P
And i also thought he liked me back when we used to argue and stuff but im done thinking that. Tonight i saw him and we actually talked as in an actual convasation as opposed to... How we usually are. Anyway sorry i know you didnt ask for my life story.
Tx 4 the Advice :P
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Again not to give you false hope or anything. But, the fact that you guys were talking civilly and not arguing may be a sign that you've grown and changed and maybe, both like each other now.
That's just a thought but it's something worth hearing. I don't mind listening to what you have to say. I'm here to help and that's how I help.
Anymore questions just ask:)
Good Luck!
That's just a thought but it's something worth hearing. I don't mind listening to what you have to say. I'm here to help and that's how I help.
Anymore questions just ask:)
Good Luck!
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Ok, not trying to dis u but he so doesnt lyk me. Lyk i said dated my friend and not in a wierd way but she is HoT. Lyk seriously she is the hottest girl in our grade, she even dated the most popular girl's ex. And the only reson i actually talked to him, was coz i wanted to hang with her and he was in my words 'stalking' her.
And thanks for listening this is actually the only place i can talk about him without everyone freaking out that i like him. We sorta have a personality clash. Another way i know he will never like me.
And thanks for listening this is actually the only place i can talk about him without everyone freaking out that i like him. We sorta have a personality clash. Another way i know he will never like me.
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