Can't masterbate - Never feel pleasure. What's wrong with me

Hi,

What do you mean you aren't able to feel anything when trying to masturbate? Do you mean from touching your penis?

If you've had a wet dream then you can ejaculate.

How long do you usually masturbate for? It may take a little while and you may not recognize the feelings if it is your first time. You may tend to think that you have to urinate. It could also be the technique that you are using.

Anxiety or stress can also cause problems. If you are getting frustrated thinking that you can't masturbate it may be part of the problem.

Get yourself comfortable and try masturbating. Take your time and think about the feelings going on in your body. Most of all, relax. Let what happens, happen. If you think you have to urinate, keep going, you might be really close (you might want to urinate before you start masturbating).

I don't think the circumcision was an issue. Lots of guys have been circumcised and masturbate all the time.

Good luck and let us know what's going on.

I am really sorry to hear that you are having issues. The only thing I can think of that's not psychological is that when you were circumcised, you could have received some sort of nerve damage from the surgery, but by this point, you would have noticed something. Is that the case? In either case, please let us know.

Hi Hon: I am the mother of 2 teenage boys, and they can ask me ANYTHING!!! Do you feel comfortable enough, asking your mom, if you used to touch yourself when you were a little boy? From inside the womb, till the day you die, men and women touch themselves. My boys - thank GOD I don't use my real identity!!! ;-) - touched themselves all the time - which is TOTALLY normal. And my eldest one, used to "make it dance!" and "Loves to make it point to the ceiling" So I am sure your mom will know if you were able to do that when you were little!

If you can ask her and she doesn't remember, you might have had a problem from when you were little. BUT I really doubt that hon, as you can get an erection and wet dreams

When you see an attractive girl, or think erotically do you get an erection easily? Also do you feel any pleasure in your groin at ALL. Without touching!!?

I really don't think it's the circumcision as they don't just get a pair of scissors and cut away!!! o.O ;-) XD They pull up the skin and cut around. And I'm sure that you and your doctor, would have noticed the tip of your penis being cut. The most sensitive part of your penis is the hood of your penis. Touch there and see if there is ANYTHING at all!!! If not you could have some sort of nerve damage. But I don't think so, because even though the hood is the most sensitive part, the rest of your penis isn't too shabby!!!! When you masterbate, do you get to the point of the release? If so, don't worry about not ejaculating, you might have a little hangup about it. IN FACT, you might have been walked in on, when you were little and your parents reactions might have caused you to think "this is a no no!!" I remember walking in on my son, I probably looked like this o.O But I instantly stated, that it was normal he just needed to do it in private instead of infront of company LOL!!! JK!!!

a lot of sexual dysfunction - we'll call it that for now - is from your subconscious!!!. A lot of teenagers think that they shouldn't be doing it, either from no one talking about it, earlier experiences, nationality, religious beliefs etc. So evaulate that OK? REally think to yourself how you feel about masturbation!!! If you think that you are OK about it, I would suggest talking to your family doctor and perhaps have him make a referal to a urologist - which you would have seen for the circumcision - and they can do tests on you to see if there IS actually nerve damage!

Just relax for the time being OK? and realize that you are a normal healthy 17 year old young man, and any mastterbation is TOTALLY normal!!! Keep me informed, and if you EVER need to ask ANYTHING - within reason ;-) - I'm on here!!! Good luck hon!

Hey, I'm 14 and like Guest before me i have never been able to feel anything when i try masterbating. Like guest i have ejaculated in wet dreams before (only a little amount!!!!). I don't have any problem getting an erection.

I'm not circumsized, and my penis is pretty small (if that counts for anything)

It was really awkward for me when i told my girlfriend i coudn't masterbate...and i just want to no why...please...

I don't think that it's anything that you should be ashamed of (and I know that's hard because you're 14 and probably very sensitive right now) but it does take awhile for some people at the time. You're young so you may not even be able to fully ejaculate yet but I can tell you the best advice is to just keep trying. I recall that I was 14 before I started, and it took me almost an hour the first time I ever ejaculated, so yeah. I think what you're going through is typical. Does that make sense?

I'm 19, and i've never felt that urge...err...i do watch porn here and there, and I get turned on when i'm kissing a girl...But i've never wanted to masterbate. Perhaps you can find another outlet to let out "sexual anxiety." Pornography, Girls and other things could stimulate you instead.

I dont think i ahd a wet dream or remember having one anywayz what do i know im 12 but i still cum but its only pre-cum

Wet Dreams happen anywhere from 10 to 14 years old! Some boys - like my youngest son (14) - mature later! His friends who is 13, has a deep voice and a moustache already!!!! So you just never know! Also a wet dream is different for all boys, sometimes its a little wetness and others a lot! Also depends on the time of the night you had it! It could have dried up by then - I know WTMI!!! XD - But just know that you are ALL in the normal range for puberty, and soon EVERYTHING will change, and all of a sudden you will have erections non stop and PRAY for them to slow down!! ;-) Believe me, I usually have at least 2 or 3 friends of my sons sleeping over every weekend, and I just stay in my room now till NOON!!! ;-) :$ o.O XD So don't worry OK guys!!? You have till your 19 for everything to work out and become a "man"!

hi um call me guest 4 or whatever , I'm a guy and I'm 19 now and i have been masturbating since i was like 13 or something and i have only felt pleasure once when i was 13-14 when i went for 3 to 4 hours and i thort my mum would be home soon so i finished and i felt very good (well from what i can remember it was 6 odd years ago) but since then i never have felt it again, some of those times since then i have almost gone that long and never felt it again its getting rather frustrating cus i fell nothing from it but there's an urge like an itch that needs to be scratched but you cant quite reach it, it rather pisses me off cus when i Finnish i just feel empty inside, after reading some of the other posts it seems im not the only one but ive tried relaxing and stuff but nothing helps I'm not sure if something is wrong with me on the inside or i just have to do it for like 4 hours like that time or whatever but i don't really have that much time at home alone anymore so i don't know what to do.

Hi hon! due to the fact that you are now past puberty, I think you could ask your doctors to see a urologist! Because if you feel NOTHING! And it takes hours for you to ever have felt anything in the past, perhaps there is nerve damage or something in that line! So you have never been caught masturbating or anything like that? How do you actually feel about masturbation? Depending on your upbringing, and your personal or religious thoughts you could have some hang ups about it! Have you had sex or sexual contact yet? If so was that any different? Also know that some people just can't get "off" when masturbating, for one reason or another!

try masterbaiting then right before your about to cum remove your hand and stop it hard but repaet this about three or four times and on the last one youll feel palesure i gurrante

well im 12 years old and i think i need a little help too. my penis is like good size i have a lot of trouble getting hard.... any way i just dont feel any pleasher at all when im looking at porn or when i masterbate or when i had a hot girl down my pants!!!!!! >;) it gets realy anoying some times.(i hit puberty at the age of 9) but any way my buds are trying to help me but we just cant think of a way for me to have pleasher!!! use you sleeve,use some oil,use this,use that! it just is so depressing! like when you have big mussle and are 5.10ft tall and have a mustash,i think i have a reason to worrie. :'( :-( but man just help me out tell me if there is some thing wrong or is it just me....(i am surcumsized) :'( :-( :$ %-) o.O

hello I've ready what Guest 1 had to say and i can safely say thats me 100% although im 15. i was circumcised at a very young age and i cant seem to masturbate... I have had ALOT of wet dreams and they are big and messy lol but its hard for me i get very little feeling towards it. My parents have always said its good to masturbate but i don't get any pleasure i haven't cummed masturbating only through wet dreams. I pre-cum but nothing more i have always wanted to ask why? is there something wrong with me? but i found this so if anyone could help that would be GREAT

ayana09 wrote:

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Your lower back is not where your prostate is. Your prostate is right in your pelvis (or at least very near there) and can be felt through the rectum. It's more in the belly than anything.