Hi
I am 29years old man and i am masturbating from the 12 years old. when i am masturbating i feel normal pleasure and able to ejaculate. I had the habit of masturbating watching porn movies in most cases.
I had my first sex with women at the age of 26. It was a big disappointment for me the time when i inserted my penis into her vigina and played. I had no feeling or pleasure. Her vigina is tight and she felt the pleasure and the lubrication in her vigina is normal. I tried and tried but atlast my penis shrinked suddenly and not erected again but there was no ejaculation, no pleasure. But i had a problem that time which my foreskin will not move easy when i got erection. I tried with another women and the result is same "got no orgasm or pleasure with vigina drive".
I was severly stressed and felt that i have the impotency something like that. but after sometime i had sex with another girl and i felt the pleasure and reached orgasm. her vigina is not so tight and i felt very little friction during that intercourse. I had no problem with foreskin and i used also the condom . then i didnt had sex for long time .
i decided to do circumcision to solve the foreskin problem and done recently. Now also i can masturbate normally. Recently i tried having sex. i experienced the same problem again which i dont have the pleasure during vigina intercourse. I was playing playing and playing atlast i got orgasm only with the masturbation . I dont feel any pleasure with the vigina intercourse.
I tried with another women and drived about 15 min longer. and could not feel the pleasure with vigina intercourse but only with masturbation and that too only by me. when the women try masturbating me i could not attain orgasm. I get the orgasm only if i do in my style.
So My problem is I could not feel the pleasure with vigina drive out of the 8 sexual attempt with different women i suceeded in only one.
I am severly stressed of this which i am loosing my confidence. almost i mastubate everyday. will that be a problem?? . never my semen released in bed at any point of time automatically. because of this stress and disconfidence sometimes i could not get the erection also when the women is ready to have sex with me.. I am trying again and again with different women to confirm do i have a problem or not. Because i dont want to have a problem in the marriage life.
Please post your suggestion to solve my problem..
I am 29years old man and i am masturbating from the 12 years old. when i am masturbating i feel normal pleasure and able to ejaculate. I had the habit of masturbating watching porn movies in most cases.
I had my first sex with women at the age of 26. It was a big disappointment for me the time when i inserted my penis into her vigina and played. I had no feeling or pleasure. Her vigina is tight and she felt the pleasure and the lubrication in her vigina is normal. I tried and tried but atlast my penis shrinked suddenly and not erected again but there was no ejaculation, no pleasure. But i had a problem that time which my foreskin will not move easy when i got erection. I tried with another women and the result is same "got no orgasm or pleasure with vigina drive".
I was severly stressed and felt that i have the impotency something like that. but after sometime i had sex with another girl and i felt the pleasure and reached orgasm. her vigina is not so tight and i felt very little friction during that intercourse. I had no problem with foreskin and i used also the condom . then i didnt had sex for long time .
i decided to do circumcision to solve the foreskin problem and done recently. Now also i can masturbate normally. Recently i tried having sex. i experienced the same problem again which i dont have the pleasure during vigina intercourse. I was playing playing and playing atlast i got orgasm only with the masturbation . I dont feel any pleasure with the vigina intercourse.
I tried with another women and drived about 15 min longer. and could not feel the pleasure with vigina intercourse but only with masturbation and that too only by me. when the women try masturbating me i could not attain orgasm. I get the orgasm only if i do in my style.
So My problem is I could not feel the pleasure with vigina drive out of the 8 sexual attempt with different women i suceeded in only one.
I am severly stressed of this which i am loosing my confidence. almost i mastubate everyday. will that be a problem?? . never my semen released in bed at any point of time automatically. because of this stress and disconfidence sometimes i could not get the erection also when the women is ready to have sex with me.. I am trying again and again with different women to confirm do i have a problem or not. Because i dont want to have a problem in the marriage life.
Please post your suggestion to solve my problem..
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Hi
It sounds to me like you may be masturbating too often! Have you considered male on male interaction? maybe its not you but its the vagina!
If this is no way whats happening then you may need to find a women who is more experimental, try getting oral before just jumping right in the vagina! Maybe you just need a lil more to get you going! Also if its the porn that gets you off ask her to play with herself for a while and let you watch, or even pop one in during intercourse. If you can try anal as well just try and experiment as much as you can! Also maybe buy some toys like Dildos or anal beads i have heard that some males really enjoy the anal beads! and you can play with the girl with a dildo to get urself going!
Any way try and cut down on the beating it and have more sex you may just be happy with the usual masturbation, causing you to shy from a second partner!
youre lack of experience may also be a problem just keep trying new things!
Hopefully this was of some help to you!
It sounds to me like you may be masturbating too often! Have you considered male on male interaction? maybe its not you but its the vagina!
If this is no way whats happening then you may need to find a women who is more experimental, try getting oral before just jumping right in the vagina! Maybe you just need a lil more to get you going! Also if its the porn that gets you off ask her to play with herself for a while and let you watch, or even pop one in during intercourse. If you can try anal as well just try and experiment as much as you can! Also maybe buy some toys like Dildos or anal beads i have heard that some males really enjoy the anal beads! and you can play with the girl with a dildo to get urself going!
Any way try and cut down on the beating it and have more sex you may just be happy with the usual masturbation, causing you to shy from a second partner!
youre lack of experience may also be a problem just keep trying new things!
Hopefully this was of some help to you!
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Hi there, I don't think that what you are experiencing is totally abnormal. You probably have affected the sensitivity of your penis if you masturbate frequently although I doubt that is the problem. Do you have sensation in your penis at all? Let me know what you think and then we will take it from there. Let me know!
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Yes i have exact problem. (foreskin i dont have any issues)
When i fuk my wife, i dont feel anything and my wife also doesnt feel anything.
But while mastruburating i able feel the pleasure and ejaculation.
Any body helpme
When i fuk my wife, i dont feel anything and my wife also doesnt feel anything.
But while mastruburating i able feel the pleasure and ejaculation.
Any body helpme
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Can anybody answer this question??
I can have pleasure and ejaculate fine during masturbation, but not while having sex with a partner. Can anyone help?
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Like you mention it is the stress. Sex is 'play' don't attach too much seriousness to it. You may want to meet a sex therapist (Clinical Psychologist) who may put you on some kinda regimen like 'sensate focusing' which helps you look at enjoying the whole process than concentrating on the penetration part. As you feel comfortable with your and her body you will be able to enjoy it like you do with yourself. All the best.
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