well..my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex on April 26th..and i've been sick on and off since a few days after that. i had been checking my cervix position..and i could barely even feel it. but now..it feels way bigger..like kind of swollen. it doesn't seem open from what i can tell. i've been spotting on and off like crazy. and i'm not sure what all of it means. my cervix is lower and i'm able to really feel it..it seems much larger than before. can anyone help me? could the enlargement of my cervix accompanied by the on and off sickness and on and off spotting mean i'm pregnant? i normally have very heavy periods..but i haven't had one in a while now..(my periods are irregular..meaning i skip a month or so sometimes..) and i keep having the pinkish brown/tan color when i spot. please help me if u can. thank you very much. %-) ?