Hi, my last post, yeah it was about my back pain in the right flank area, well the pain is still there. It's been ever worse, it's been going on for about 2-3 weeks and my grandmother still refuses to take me to the doctor and my school nurse is rude to me "if you can't take care of yourself don't rely on others to take care of you for you" she said that to my face, ive told all the trusted adults in my life about it too. Well back to the pain, I can't take it any more, I can barely stand up with out cringing and crying in pain. My grandmother thinks that they are just spasms because I am 'lazy' in her eyes. Normally I don't complain about pain because I can take it but this is just to much. It's on my right side, the pain goes from midway down my back down to my pelvis. How long do muscle spasms last, how can I convince my grandmother to get the pain area checked out? No one listens to a fourteen year old girl....