I do not have an average size vagina. It to me, is very deep. I know it has to be deeper than 9 inches. My new found love is great in everyway except in bed. I can't reach a climax, it feels like he's lost inside me, and I can forget about being on top, that's too embarrassing. I know it's too impossible for him to get a long enough penis. But, can my vagina be shortened?