did he broke my hymen??

Tho your hymen MAY be broken, you are still considered a virgin until a penis penetrates your vagina, there fore you will no longer be a virgin. One can break the hymen in many ways other than intercourse.

Also the first sexual experience does not have to bring any pain at all. It depends on the female. Some may bleed and feel pain, other's may just bleed a tiny bit, some may not even feel any difference at all.

but if i stooped been fingered since long time is that possible that the hymen will be shrink again?

I never said that your hymen is broken, i said it could be due to being fingered. You can break your hymen via a tampon, bike riding, horseback riding, gymnastics an accident or even a fall could rupture it. Once the hymen is broken or ruptured, it does not grow or come back to the unbroken state. But remember, because you think your hymen could be broken and you have not experienced penile penetration, you are still a virgin.

i have pain & feels a bulge on the left side 5 months after hysterectomy. what should i do....?  i appreciate your suggestions.