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So whether or not it feels satisfying for him is not important at this point in time.. what is important is that both of you should take care fo your health and futures by getting on a reliable birth control method as well as protection against STD and STI.. plus you both should get tested now and then in another 6-8 months to be sure.
You did not mention either of your ages OR if you use Birth Control... but without a barrier method of protection like a condom you will risk all sorts of bad problems, many of which are NOT cureable and you will carry for your entire life and also be conagious yourself.
Unsafe sex is just not worth it, your future depends on it.
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Way to go sants, lol . your right the question is not about birth control, see how ppl strike up convos' that will lead to a debate lol. answer to the real question, it prob don't matter either way if they pull out or stay in as long as he cums. its all good, and just depends on his preference. Doesn't mean anything is wrong with you if he pulls out.
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this is not my text, but being a guy this is exacly how I feel about it:
As a guy, I think I can speak for all males regarding this question. It generally is not satisfying to me, and to some extent, the women I've been with, for several reasons. First, I have to remain alert and pay attention to my body so I can pull out in time, rather than just "letting myself go" so as not to have to worry about it. Second, in the moments before ejaculation, our bodies are designed to want to thrust deeply into our partner so as to make sure our semen is deposited in a manner to aid in conception (the whole idea of intercourse from a biological standpoint)--which is opposite of wanting to pull out at this time. Pulling out kills the moment by stopping stimulation at a time that feels the best to us--and makes for a weaker, less satisfying orgasm. Even though we may still ejaculate--as once the process starts it cannot be stopped--the feeling is not the same. (A considerate female partner will immediately take over stimulation of her man's penis as soon as he pulls out. This helps in offsetting the loss of vaginal stimulation to the penis before and during the man's orgasm). Timing is everything--pull out too soon, and it may actually prevent us from having an orgasm. Too late, and semen may already have seeped out before we realize it. Just as importantly, as for how this affects the woman, if she is approaching orgasm at about the same time, pulling out of her stops her stimulation, as well, and can kill her orgasm, too. (A considerate male partner will try to make sure his woman has had her orgasm while he is still inside of her, so at least she can have a "good" orgasm).
Lastly, some of the women I've been with have said that feeling me ejaculating into them brings them to a more powerful orgasm--so by pulling out, this deprives them of this experience. The way I look at this, it is less satisfying for both partners by using the pullout method. It is not "all about the guy".
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For me, pulling out actually feels about 1000 times better than finishing inside the girl. Men are visual. When I was young and learning how to masturbate, I always did it with the lights on. When I had my first orgasm, I got to see the climax and it was very satisfying to see it spurt out as I was climaxing. 25+ years later it's still the same for me. I've been married almost a decade and having an orgasm inside my wife still feels like masturbating in the dark. To me an orgasm isn't really a good orgasm unless I get to see the white stuff coming out in spurts at the end. I don't think it's degrading to the woman at all. I think it's really sexy to erupt all over her stomach at the end and then clean her up afterwards. She agrees that it's a lot easier to clean up that way as well. If I do it inside of her then it oozes out of her all night and she has to wear a pad to bed.
And it's really pretty safe providing your guy can do it correctly.
It worked for me up until I got my vasectomy. And even though pregnancy is no longer an issue I still prefer to pull out rather than leave it in at the end. Don't let other people convince you that all guys would rather do it inside you. That's just not true for everybody. As long as you don't have to worry about STDs pulling out is a wonderful way to end a lovemaking session. And if you're really worried about pregnancy you can always go on the pill or other forms of hormonal birth control plus have him pull out for extra insurance. That would be a win-win situation for both of you.
Hope that helped.
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pulling out is not satisfying to a women. When I was a teen I hooked up with a guy who would pull out everytime he was with a girl. I started to feel a good sensation inside, but when he pulled out, I didn't feel satisfied. I did not come or have an orgasm. He did finish himself off, but it might not have been as satisfying for him. Men are dumb to think that pulling out prevents pregnancy. It doesn't. All pulling out does is prevent you from having that orgasmic moment for you and also for the women. I did hear of one girl getting pregnant even though the guy pulled out everytime.
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