hi there ... im not sure what to do ... im a virgin i have never had sex with anyone but i have inserted 2 fingers into my virgina and it was ok not to sore ... i am staying the night with my first boyfriend and i think we are going to have sex... i dont know if my cherry is popped when i insert my fingers no blood comes? also i have had a pole kinda thing in my vigina the other night to get started i would say maybe 1ft long but as thin as my finger does that mean that i popped my cherry it did not hurt going in? i need help.. i dont want to be in pain tonight
Well... see, the hymen isn't like a membrane that seals off your vagina. The typical hymen is kinda like a partial wall. Two fingers might not be enough to break it, and that thin rod probably wouldn't do it either. It's a stretch, but I would be remiss if I didn't say that.
However, it is still likely that your hymen is indeed broken, but that doesn't really mean a whole hell of a lot. After all, you're a virgin, regardless of the state of your hymen.
There are a few ways to make your first time easier. 1: lube. Good lube. 2: Go slow. 3: Get super turned on. No, really. Your vagina will relax and lengthen a little to accommodate a penis when you're in the mood, and your pain threshold goes up, too.