*if this is posted in the wrong section, i am sorry. Please move if possible?
HI I am 30 years old.
Well as the topic mentions i have really small testicles, so small that when my penis is erect they most likely go in me.
My penis is extremely small when flaccid , prob 2-3 inches top if its a good day, but when erect it is about 6 or so ( apparently what they call a grower)
Now i have been suffering from this since i can remember, It has taking a huge amount of my life away, i feel as i would of been a more successful man if i didn't, i avoid at all cost going OUT yes it sucks that bad, i go out only when necessary.
Here is what is weird i guess the good part? i have never been ashamed in the sex act, i mean i wouldn't pull it out until my penis was erect but never had a problem besides a girl saying i had small testicles :/.
Now i am married and have beautiful children, apparently extremely small testicles does not affect this :) Grateful for that, as in the back of my head i was always concerned if i was going to be able to produce children.
Ok so the problem the big huge problem....
The bulge in my pants... yes many of you might think this is stupid but this is the reason i tend to hide from public. I have considered shoving a sock or something down there but i think it would be worst or maybe it is just the fear of looking funny.
Please do not say people do not look or don't notice because believe it or not they DO, some are even loud and shameless to say "did you see that guy" some stare and some laugh, this goes without fail every single time i am out. Well i will not drag any longer, simply saying that i am suffering in this body i was giving. I wear baggy clothes ( don't like them but have no choice)
Please please !!!! Any solution is welcomed , i have tried using... pumps, stretchers, pills etc nothing does the job, you might be thinking im stupid for trying any of these things put i am desperate and willing to try it all. Sadly i was thinking in my head wile someone was staring and laughing that i would gladly give an arm for a normal package ( i know that sounds extreme but it is true)
So again any help? i can not seem to find much information about the subject , i guess my main goal is the testicles since this would give me the bulge i want.
Money wouldn't be a problem, and surgery is very acceptable if it is an option, like i said there is just not enough info about anything.
Thank you so much for your replies and i apologize for the long post, in a way i feel like i got this off my chest, since the only one i have talked about this is my wife " your fine, you are just being stupid" And that doesn't help
If any more info is needed? please let me know
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Hi Guest,
You're bigger than average. The average size for an adult penis is between 5 and 5 1/2" when erect. It varies considerably when flaccid but there is nothing wrong with 2-3".
Testicle size varies considerably and as you've found does not equate to fertility. They can be from about 1 1/4 - 2" long.
It's also NORMAL for your testicles to rise when you're erect and it is normal for them to practically "disappear" just before ejaculation.
There is no problem here Guest. You may have "body dysmorphic disorder." It is a psychological condition in which the patient feels that there is something wrong with his/her body.
See a psychologist.
Good luck, hope it helps.
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Hi thanks for the replies, see this is what i am getting but i am 100% certain of my problem, my head is intact, like i said i hear people mentioning it and staring.
And yes there is shrinking of testicles when erect or having sex but shrinking is one thing, they go completely inside my body as if i had no testicles at all.
As for my penis, it does not hang or go sideways it just points straight. Erect i have no complains it is normal, the problem is flaccid;.
I would post a pic if it was possible? then people could have a feeling at whats happening.
Trust me im not crazy lol my package is extremely small and could all be grabbed and hidden well with the palm of one hand ( maybe that explains the size better?
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Guest,
In many men the testicles retract completely into the body having sex. It's NORMAL.
You do not have a physical problem. Penis size varies considerably when flaccid and 2-3" is fine.
There is NOTHING you can do to change the size of your testicles. The ONLY thing you can do for your penis is surgery, you might gain an inch, but it would make it "floppy."
See the psychologist.
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Again thank for the reply, i am guessing you have get a lot of emotional people on this site that you keep suggesting a psychologist?
This doctor will not stop other people staring and mentioning and pointing or saying "hey that guy has no penis(changed the word)" i do not have a bulge in my pants i am completely flat down there....so thank you but that is not the kind of professional i need. I would go to the urologist and see what i can do but i am to embarrassed to get naked in front of anyone if i am not erect, if i know that it would have a solution i would suck it up and do it, but would like to find out first...
Again people who do not have a problem like this doesn't think it is a problem, so have no idea what we are going though.
So again anyone having the same problem? o do you go by it and what can i do? Thanks.
Im sure there has to be someone else out there with this issue? or at least one or the other?
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Again, I'm going to suggest the psychologist. To answer your question, you are the FIRST that I've suggested this to.
People don't go around staring and pointing at other's genitalia. Who cares if you have a bulge? Nobody but you. Anyone that is mature is going to understand that there are limits to what you can control on your body.
Would you laugh and point at a woman with very large or small breasts? How about someone, say a veteran, that has lost an arm, leg, eye, or was severely burned or scarred? Would you laugh at them?
You're lucky you have what you have. You are "fully functional" and above average in size. Accept what you have.
There is NOTHING anyone can do for you. I too await any other responses.
Good luck.
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The only reasons you give this answer is because you can't do anything else as a doctor. You're pretty useless in this question but like all doctor they hide their lack of ability and suggests mental stuff..
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at adult toy web sights there are "toys" called Mr Limpy (I think - I don't remember the name with any certainty)- they are strap on, and they are made to be worn under clothes for intersexes who feel self conscious or want to feel the "normal package"
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I don't know if the web page allowed my previous answer- it gave me some error message. There are "prosthetics" that are sold at adult online toy stores for intersexes. They are strap ons, a lot like a toy, but made specifically for people wanting a limp "package" I think (don't know for sure) that they are called Mr Limpy and come in small, med, and large. They are not for sexual pleasure, but for day time wear. btw it IS normal. I dated a man who was a grower- and it was indescribable how much he grew. I know you feel ashamed, but you are totally normal.
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I agree with medic-dan. You have body dysmorphia and should see a psychiatrist for it. There is nothing wrong with you physically. Whatever you may try to do to alter the look of your penis and testicles may backfire on you and cause irreparable damage. Be happy with what you've got... and, in light of the kinds of medical conditions posted on this board, you have more than enough.
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The things you wrote could have been written by me, except I'am a inch smaller. Yes, it's true, it's not all in your head, people do stare and between men the topic is used to make fun, even by adult educated people. But... who cares? What's the use for a limp penis except for peeing? The only thing that matters is that you have a wife e she is satisfied. And if you find yourself bottered by other people who make fun, just make it grow in front of them and they'll see that there's nothing to laugh. Problaby some of them are even shorter than you even if they have big buldges when flacid. But a flacid penis is worthless. ;)
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hi everone,
Well, just reading and feeling the pains due the stuff shared above. Before jumping to the conclusion, just develop an understanding of Human Psycology. The universe is infinite and even to the limit no one can think and having a lot of starts, galaxies, and planets. Earth is one out of them. and almost 70% is water and just 30% is land and further most of the land dont have human beings. More than 7 billion people are living around. There are 7 Contenents and 196 countires and finally, One is Yours'. There are Many provinces/ states of your country and one is Yours'. There are Many Cities of your country and one CITY is yours. There are Many Towns in your city and One is Yours'. There are Many houses in your town and one home is Yours'. Many family members are living in your home. AND YOU ARE ONE OUT OF THEM........ Thats what You Are..... And this life is finite and one day everybody has to die. So, Besides all the problems Dont forget to "LIVE YOUR LIFE".... we are not going ro reborn once die. Now its upto you live it with sorrow or joy. The Medical problems you discussed haiving little importance. What important is "YOU". Very frankly, if a girl can satisfy herself with the little finger then you are a Giant in size.... Be hopefule and go for the Seman Analysis.... if your sperm count is good then "NO Problem" if not good or result is simple no then also no problem... Make love and earn love otherwise there is no limit of satisfaction... I know this is less medical opinion but it works really. No one is going to take place of yours. understand yourself and live your life happily. . . You are everything for yourself and besides make good for others because this is only the aim that can satisfy oneself. Stay Blessed...
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Thank you again guys, after a long time, i attempted everything unsuccesfully. It is getting worst and worst , i try so hard to ignore people, i really really do but i just can't they stare and laugh and i have to pretend that i don't know what was going on. I am completely desperate at this point and i know longer know how to live a normal life, i am locked in and go out only when extremely necesary, it saddens me that i will not be able to live a normal life to it's fullest. Strangers stare and it hurts , but after a while it goes away , but when family and friends can't get over it it kills me more. I know in these peoples head it's probably not a big deal or just a moment of laughter for them but what they don't know it's how much it hurts me, i believe if people were aware they would stop. I just wish there was a solution or my head being extremely strong to ignore absolutly everyone that it mocking me.
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Hi dear,
I can understand your situation. But please say a big "NO" to worries. Make good for others and never take tension what others think about yourself. My friend I need you to be brave. Think beyond all this. You are not responsible for this. Just be calm and think about your passions and make them possible in this life. Hard time will end very soon. You are everything in this universe for yourself. No one can take your place. Just do good for others because this is the prime goal which makes you satisfied and peaceful.
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