I previously researched labiaplasty and vaginoplasty and some doctors said that even if a woman hasn't had a baby she can be a candidate for the vaginoplasty surgery. I had a boyfriend who was pretty well endowed, 8 inches long and we had sex all of the time for 2 years. I don't think I was doing kegal exercises regularly but I was eventually able to "squirt". Could I get loose from having all that sex? I mean the longest I'd go without having sex was usually just a month. My bf always told me I was like a vice but I was with someone after him who was kind of wide at the base. I've been told that a woman can only get loose after child birth, but then I hear guys talking about girls who haven't had babies, like porn stars, and calling them loose. Does my ability to squirt mean my muscles are strong? Cuz it definitely feels like I'm flexing some muscles when it happens...and it didn't happen right away. I'd push out when I'd orgasm and then one day I climaxed like usual and liquid came out. Now it's just like a reflex for me to squirt during sex. Can I get loose from having sex consistently for years or is it only a problem after childbirth?
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'Squirting' has nothing to do with tightness. 'Squirting' is a sudden release of the lubrication normally present during sexual excitement (and I know women who would kill to be able to do that!) If you can control your release of this it shows that you have good muscle ability!
And the guys talking about porn stars thing... How would they know? How many have had sex with a porn star... Porn movies are designed to show you everything... so a woman will be seen in a very (vaginally) relaxed state to fulfill this...
God.. guys are tools! How is a woman too loose? Maybe the guys should consider that perhaps they are too small? You should say that to them!
Just keep up with your pelvic floor exercises and you'll be fine.
Answer: No. Too much (what the hell is too much anyway) sex cannot make you loose!
And the guys talking about porn stars thing... How would they know? How many have had sex with a porn star... Porn movies are designed to show you everything... so a woman will be seen in a very (vaginally) relaxed state to fulfill this...
God.. guys are tools! How is a woman too loose? Maybe the guys should consider that perhaps they are too small? You should say that to them!
Just keep up with your pelvic floor exercises and you'll be fine.
Answer: No. Too much (what the hell is too much anyway) sex cannot make you loose!
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P.S. And why would you even consider having risky surgery (ALL anaethesia has a risk of death) if YOU are enjoying sex?
Just saying... ;)
Just saying... ;)
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Lol thank you. But I know a guy who had a big penis and was with his girlfriend for like a year and he told me she got really loose. Like double fisting loose. And she had lost her virginity to him. Do you think maybe because he was big, her first, and they had sex all the time, her vagina was kinda calibrated to his size. I've always wondered if the first penis sets the tone for those who follow lol
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I considered having a labia minora reduction, down the line after A LOT of research; because I can't wear certain underwear comfortably due to the fact that my inner labia is a little bit longer than the outer labia majora. I know it's only going to get worse and intercourse will become more painful. Don't worry I was planning on waiting a long while before I really consider it and go in for a consultation.
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No, I dont think the first sets the tone for the rest... That is not the way our bodies work, babe. I think that maybe we just get a little spoilt after a well endowed boyfriend! I know I did! ;).
Regarding your make friend with the large willy: Have you actually seen it? Is he as big as he says? Why did he feel the need to tell you about his ex? Ask yourself those things...
Perhaps the girlfriend was just really relaxed with him and comfortable to do most things... also some women have a naturally wide set vagina... allowing for larger objects (double fists...wow, awesome!) through naturally.
Regarding the labia issue.. I can understand surgery if you cant even wear underpants without pain... but dont do it because of some cosmetic reason or if you think it makes you look loose... that makes no sense!
Regarding your make friend with the large willy: Have you actually seen it? Is he as big as he says? Why did he feel the need to tell you about his ex? Ask yourself those things...
Perhaps the girlfriend was just really relaxed with him and comfortable to do most things... also some women have a naturally wide set vagina... allowing for larger objects (double fists...wow, awesome!) through naturally.
Regarding the labia issue.. I can understand surgery if you cant even wear underpants without pain... but dont do it because of some cosmetic reason or if you think it makes you look loose... that makes no sense!
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iun marrid 28years old female i loose over spam and i confused to merriged only 2 month ago i will merried night sex moode not temper . a problem after childbirth?
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lol yeah I was only half serious about the first setting the tone. I have seen it and I have had sex with him. He's not ridiculously big or anything. I'm guessing she just had a wide set vagina then. I definitely was spoiled lol
I wouldn't take the risk of surgery if it was just for cosmetic reasons. I love sex way too much to risk having chronic pain for the rest of my life due to a botched job. Thanks for all the feedback, you were very helpful!
I wouldn't take the risk of surgery if it was just for cosmetic reasons. I love sex way too much to risk having chronic pain for the rest of my life due to a botched job. Thanks for all the feedback, you were very helpful!
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I actually prefer a woman who is loose. If too tight, I cum too fast. I would much rather stroke in and out of her for a long time, giving her as much pleasure as possible, before I cum in her. I have a couple lady friends I can fist easily, and they are still wonderful to have regular sex with.
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Good to hear. Thank you! I've never been fisted and I don't think it'd be easy for a guy to do to me so I think that's a good sign.
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I agree... I prefer loose, like 3 or 4 fingers... Too tight does not feel good... Women that have had kids can tend to be looser than woman who have not, however women who have had more male partners than the average, whos penis is bigger than norm ,can become loose...I have had almost 400 women at 40 and loose feels better
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Your comment makes no sense because I'm a woman and yes a woman's vagina definitely becomes loose from having too much intercourse and giving birth.
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