My fiance and myself have been together for almost 5 years now and became newly engaged 4 months ago. We have talked about having children, but I am also met with an apprehensive-ness that I always just attributed to nervousness on becoming a father. Little by little, I startedto realize that not only was he not ready for children, but that he had no true desires to have them, either. We just had one of the most difficult discussions as a couple ever, and he confirmed my ever increasing suspicion. So now we are at a standstill: should we end it here now that we know for sure the thoughts of the other, or should we stick it out and just continue to love each other? He is literally the perfect man for me, except for this. What should I/we do?
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Hi Kinu,
End it, now. Sorry to say.
One of you will always regret it if you marry. You may never have the children you want. If you do get pregnant he may always regret it.
Find someone with your same desires.
Good luck.
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