Fingering then having to go pee alot

So i been getting fingered for awhile. All the time i get fingered i have a huge urge to go pee during it so i make her stop. After being fingered i have to go pee alot but nothing comes out and this isnt for only one day its about 3-5 days and it hurts to pee and when i do its clear, smells and stings it feels like i have to pee alot but only a little comes out after shes done or i make her stop my vagina is very itchy and i have to go pee every 5 minutes this hasnt always happened but since last month i been getting like this