I was about to have sex last night for my first time and the reason why I didn't, and couldn't was because I couldn't get an errection. I am pretty sure this was because I was fairly nervous so I am posting to find out if I am correct and what I can do next time?
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Thats sh*t sucks man, that same exact thing happend to me a few weeks ago once i finally got a chance to have sex with my girlfriend for the first time...I was embarassed...lol. if you find anything out let me know...save my sex life!! lol
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i just tried to have sex with my girlfriend....tried. i thought: it was kinna cold and she wasn't really doing anything...on the other hand, come on! i got really pissed off. then, yesterday, we tried again, warm, she was doing most of the work, yet still nothing...got up. i really think it's that i'm afraid that she'll be dissapointed or something. coz i don't really have experience and so forth... but i'm gonna work on my confidence and hope that next time it works.
also, i have a friend that tried for a whole week every day, and only after that week did he succed. i haven't had the opportunity 2 talk 2 him, but after i will i will post back.
also, i have a friend that tried for a whole week every day, and only after that week did he succed. i haven't had the opportunity 2 talk 2 him, but after i will i will post back.
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For the guys about to have sex for the first time, make sure you find out as much as you can about it first. That should make you feel more confident when having sex. Make sure you don't think of the cons when about to have sex as well. That will get you very nervous, just honestly give it your all. Maybe talk to her about what she likes, and what you like before starting? Hope this helped.
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Well, I think I can give some advice.
My first time this almost happened but with the help of my girl friend; and some patience it was fine. Here are the two possibility's I've encountered.
1. Your REALLY nervous. It's your first time, or with that girl. Regardless just try to calm down, and envision having sex. Within good time you will be hard.
2. You recently had sex ( which obviously isn't it for you ) or masturbated. It again is possible to get through, but patience is required
My first time this almost happened but with the help of my girl friend; and some patience it was fine. Here are the two possibility's I've encountered.
1. Your REALLY nervous. It's your first time, or with that girl. Regardless just try to calm down, and envision having sex. Within good time you will be hard.
2. You recently had sex ( which obviously isn't it for you ) or masturbated. It again is possible to get through, but patience is required
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holy c**p im so glad i found this site. i had sex for the first time last saturday and i lost my erection come time for insertion. it kept coming and going but it never got fully vein pumping hard. i thought something was horribly wrong with me. but now after reading this, i know it was just nervousness and that i just psyched myself out. phewww. ill just have to be more confident next time and not worry so much
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same thing happened to me also i tried to wake him up a lot i tried like hell but i was so surprised that it din !!! i tried alone i told ma gf to do it for me ,and then luckily i got lil erection[not perfect] then i tried intercourse but my penis slept again i wasted 3 condoms in that frikkin it was so embarrassing 8) :$ :$ :$ :$ :$ :-(
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Damn it, this happened to me just now, I had read and watched sex stuff before so I knew what I was doing but I masturbated before she came over, couldn't work through the tiredness although I tried damn hard and she did oral for a bit. Lucky for me I got her off with oral and my fingers so she seemed pleased but it sucked trying to explain to her my situation. Did a damn good job with my mouth though, someone give me an award haha.
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I might have a double post so to sum up, this just happened to me, first time doing ANYTHING sexual with a girl, we just hit it off right away and it went farther than I've ever gone. Tongue action, no underwear, performed oral which got her off (I deserve an award) and did some fingering around... the only problem? I masturbated before she got there, and I didn't get any sleep the night before, and it was my first time. I was so lost - I'm still confused how I did that. The key is to make her happy regardless so just do something else for incentive next time, then you'll feel a lot more at ease with the sexual situation. I know I'll get it next time.
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ahahaha this happens to every guy, happend to me the other night when i was about to lose my v's with my gf. after i put the condom on by by went my boner. i think its because we're so syked that we're finally going to have sex for the first time that we have way too many thoughts going through our head and cant function properly, well thats wat i think happend to me, plus it was so fucken hot in my room lol. preeeetty embarrassing i say. a load of guys are in the same boat, just hope you dont sink bro.
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Thank god I found this site... I tried having sex with my gf today and we are both virgins and I had a boner it was goin great then I put on the condom and when I tried to stick it in, it just bent... She tried getting on top but it just kept bending and not going in and then I felt so bad and embarrassed afterwards... She said its ok but now she thinks shes ugly and can't turn me on... We'll try again soon but hopefully it works out I only have 2 condoms left
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My first time I was 18 and she was way older. She sucked my penis so much that night. I still could not get hard or come. I tried and tried while f*****g her but I couldn't stay hard. I finally came on her face after my shower lol. I then went home. First time is nervous. My advice
Find a partner to practice with so that when you need to perform with a really hot babe who has expectations, you knock her out. Watch instructional videos about making women cum and and learn how to stay hard.
Find a partner to practice with so that when you need to perform with a really hot babe who has expectations, you knock her out. Watch instructional videos about making women cum and and learn how to stay hard.
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ffffffffffff....im glad i find this site....before i see that site i thought that i have some kind of problem... but now i see that meny guys have been in the same situation as me..... i tried to have sex with my gf but i didnt have any errection ... some time when we kissing and you know have some hugs and tuches i get hard but when the things get more seriously my penis didn't get hard .... ihave read all your comments but i havent find an answer in my question " what i have to do to get hard .....???" ( sorry for my eng .... i had a lot of trouble to write all that sh*t )
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Ok so its somewhat comforting knowing im not the only one this happens to
yesterday i was about to go down on a girl for the first time and i couldn't get a hardon to save my life. I get rock hard when we first hug or kiss, but as soon as she gets aroused, i get flacid. She tried everything to get me hard, and still nothing worked; it was probably the most embarrassing moment i've had all year.... I mean what the f**k, right? I get hard during class looking out the window, i get hard in the morning without any stimulation whatsoever, but i cant get hard when i've got a blazing hot girl straddling me, kissing my neck telling me she wants me right then and there.
yesterday i was about to go down on a girl for the first time and i couldn't get a hardon to save my life. I get rock hard when we first hug or kiss, but as soon as she gets aroused, i get flacid. She tried everything to get me hard, and still nothing worked; it was probably the most embarrassing moment i've had all year.... I mean what the f**k, right? I get hard during class looking out the window, i get hard in the morning without any stimulation whatsoever, but i cant get hard when i've got a blazing hot girl straddling me, kissing my neck telling me she wants me right then and there.
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